Re: ninth circuit-immigration appeal, criminal deportation

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Sorry Karina :(

But why would you want a man that is violent? he has a history
of violence in his previous relationships, why do you think he
will change?

The best thing you did is call the police and got the
Restraining 0rder...

Think about your twin daughters, living with a lawless person
like that, they don't need this kind of life, sometimes is
better to be on your own

Don't think about 'he is the father of my twin daughters' but
think about how he had the chance to stop his violence with
you after his previous relationship and he didn't

I am sorry to tell you, but you sound like the typical abused
woman that gets beat up by their mate/spouse, than puts him in
jail and later on wants to withdraw charges, only to find out
that her man still the same violent person....do you want to
end up in a plastic bag? think about your daughters for God's sake

Let the Law deal with this violent person, don't think about
the 'good' in him, but about how he beat you up and didn't
change his ways

Think!

Good luck dealing with him and helping him :(

Steve

On 7/21/05, karina wrote:
> my fiance, and the father of my twin daughters, was twice
> convicted of domestic violence-- once with me and another
> with the previous relationship about 3 years back. We've
> worked our issues out and he is getting counseling so I
> feel it is the right thing for him to be with our girls.
> The problem is that he was ordered removed based on the
> first conviction and the BIA denied his appeal. In the
> meantime, we had an incident because I was hesitant to get
> married, and, well, one thing led to another... I called
> the police and got a restraining order. As a result of
> this, he violated probation in LA county and the judge
> sentenced him to a full year and threw my fiance in jail...
> i was even more devastated to find out that immigration put
> a hold on him and the jail release him to the INS
> authorities ahead of schedule. As we were not getting
> results with our previous attorneys, we went pro per and
> filed an appeal and stay of removal to the nonth circuit
> while my fiance remains in immigration custody.
> I am very concerned now because I was told that even if
> there is a rule against "indefinite" detentions, that
> because of the resentencing in the original case, my girls'
> father is now considered an aggravated felon, which carries
> more consequences.
>
> BECAUSE OF THE TWO CONVICTIONS, IF MY FIANCE IS EVENTUALLY
> DEPORTED, WILL THERE BE TWO TEN-YEAR BANS, ONE FOR EACH
> INSTANCE, OR WILL HE BE BARRED JUST FOR THE PERIOD
> ASSOCIATED WITH HIS NOTICE?
>
> WHAT REMEDIES DO WE HAVE? I FORGOT TO MENTION THAT HE HAD
> BEEN HERE JUST UNDER A YEAR WHEN HE WAS FIRST SERVED BY
> INS ...I WISH THERE WAS SOME HOPE BECAUSE OUR LAST ATTORNEY
> DECLINED TO REPRESENT US FURTHER SAYING THAT IT WAS A WASTE
> OF OUR MONEY AND THAT WE SHOULD JUST PLAN TO MAKE A LIFE IN
> MY FIANCE'S COUNTRY.
>
> IF WE DO HAVE TO GO, WHAT STEPS SHOULD WE TAKE IN THE
> FUTURE IF THERE ARE ANY DELAYED REMEDIES?