Re: Please Help Me (Sex Offender)

More | Report Post

First, we don't know what state you live in. Second, we
don't know what specific you were convicted of. If you were
on probation for two years, my guess is it's a midemeanor.

If you're talking about Missouri, your conviction cannot be
expunged.

On 8/11/05, Trent wrote:
> Five years ago, I was convicted of sexual misconduct.. I
> know this was stupid and wrong. I had to go through two
> years of supervised probation plus attend sexual offender
> meetings every monday night for two years (without fail).
> Being an OTR Truck driver, this was a challenge in itself.
>
> Sometimes, this registering every three months, no
> possible way of passing a background check to persue my
> interest (alcohol - drug counselor), the humiliation, the
> overwhelming shame is more than I can stand.
>
> Outside of this offense, I've never been in trouble with
> the law. I am 52 yrs old and have quit drinking for 3 yrs
> now (which had a lot to do with my stupid behavior). The
> victim was my step daughter who is now married, divorced
> and has children, and says she doesnt hold anything
> against me. (I touched her with my hand during my
> drinking and taking strong medications) (still inexcusable
> absolutely).
>
> three years ago, I wrecked my pickup and (blackout), and
> have completely quit drinking after 38 years of heavy
> drinking. My counselor in S.A.T.O.P. over the DWI, (also
> over sexual programs in a major city, advised me to persue
> my interest as counselor and get this record exspunged,
> but I don't know how or where to go. Being 52 yrs old, sex
> is not very interesting to me anymore but this new career
> is. I could get off this disabiltiy and start out a new
> life, but this curse follows me....can I get help?
> Sometimes it's more than I can take emotionally. Where
> can I go to live to get relief? Is there an attorney out
> there that would be willing to take a chance on me? Or do
> I spend the rest of my life in this mental agony & just
> finally die?
> I need help...I need another chance to become productive
> and respectible human being...I could ful-fill that
> responsibility, as I said I never even had a misdemeanor
> outside of this craziness.
> I'm not just asking, I'm begging someone to help me get
> over this obstacle at whatever cost. I'm not this person
> they have made me to appear like. I wouldn't hurt a
> child, I would die for him/her first. People in this
> community even tho I've only been here a little over a
> year know I'm not this kind of person.
> If there is someone out there who really cares about my
> pain and wants to help me....email me. I will do whatever
> it takes, go back to college and start life over.
> Thanx for reading.