Re: friend in need of some advice

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Oh my goodness! Hey Lindsey! Have you ever dated a really nice
old senile gent, who left his brains in your pants?! LOL

On 2/23/06, Lindsey wrote:
> Yes I agree with Bob on everything he posted here (no wonder I
> admire him also)
>
> If he is scared that she may charge him with stachatory rape,
> maybe that's what he did, besides seducing a minor into a
> illegal relationship with a married man
>
> What a catch !! is right, what a prize is right also, or
> should we say: what a seducer liar!!?
>
> Hmmm wonder how many other innocent minors he forced himself
> to, with lies and false promises
>
> I really hope she charges him with stachatory rape, because
> that's what it is, no wonder he is 'afraid', if he was
> innocent and didn't commit such crime, he will be at peace but
> he is not
>
> There is no doubt in my mind that SOME (or most men...lmao)
> have their brains under their pants! :)
>
> Just my 0.2 Cents
>
> Lindsey
>
>
> On 2/23/06, Bob R/CA wrote:
>> On 2/23/06, linzi wrote:
>>> i have a friend who is dating a much younger girl(legal
>>> age) and wants to break it off. he is scared that she will
>>> charge him with stachatory rape. and they have been
>>> together for a year. so they are common law. can she take
>>> him to court and get half of everything he has? also he is
>>> still married going through a seperation
>>
>> I'm confused - first you say she is "legal" then you say he
>> fears being charged with statutory rape. Either she is (and
>> was) over the age of consent, or not.
>>
>> Victims don't charge people with crimes - only the state
>> (prosecutor) can do that. Assuming she was under the age of
>> consent when the relationship started, and other elements of
>> the crime were satisfied (e.g. he was over a certain age -
>> elements vary by state) then she can make a complaint to the
>> police, and the D.A. can decide if he wants to follow up on
>> it. You didn't mention the state involved or their ages, so
>> I can't point you to the statute for that state.
>>
>> As far as common law marriage, most people have little
>> understanding of the reality. Common law marriage only
>> exists in a handful of states, and each have their own
>> requirements - but none of them revolve around simply living
>> together for a certain length of time. In every instance,
>> the couple needs to hold themselves out as married. And
>> since you openly stated he is already married, I'm assuming
>> she knows this and realizes she therefore cannot be and is
> not
>> married to him. E.g., no common law marriage.
>>
>> On the other hand, some states do recognize a limited right
>> of recovery known as "palimony," but I'm not aware of any
>> instances where a settement was established for a couple
>> living together for only a year.
>>
>> For what it's worth, he doesn't sound like anyone's hero.
>> he has a wife already and is having sex and living with
>> another minor (presumably). The only reason he is still
>> involved with the girl is because he's afraid of legal or
>> economic consequences. What a catch!