Post: Wrongly accused

Posted by Wendy on 1/11/08
I work for a small family owned company, husband, wife, and father. Recently the husband and wife have seperated due to the husbands drug use. The wife had the company for about 14 days then they went to a hearing and she had no choice but to relinquish the company to her husband due to him and his father voting her out by majority vote. She is still listed as a consultant and receives pay weekly. The husband has been back in the business for 3 weeks and has recently began some really strange behavior. He is adimit that I have writtin some kind of program that encrypts, sends, copies, and password protects things on the network. For the past 4 days that I have reported to work I have suffered long, confusing, examples of things that "my program" is doing. I have not a clue how to write code. He is very hostile in the beginning of my shift by sitting on my computer and showing me how I am doing it and as he continues the only thing I can tell him is that I have not a clue to what he is showing me or accusing me of. This is very stressful,embarassing, and degrating. He has made remarks like "this dog don't hunt", "you are the only one that has the knowledge to do this","the song and dance you did yesterday ain't flying" and continues to interigate me in front of co-workers. I do have some schooling in microcomputers but that was hardware. Mind you the network has no firewall, no anti=virus, and 5 other people use my password to gain access to the server. The alligations are said very sarcastically and it sends me to tears. After he vents for 2 hours on how I am encrypting, sending, copying, encoding, and showing me things that make no sense he gets up and expects me to work. By that time I am terrified to touch the computer. Today I turned it off, unplugged it, and took the network cable out. I am the office manager and I have access to the hard copies of information why do I need to send it out via internet when I could just walk out with it. I feel like I have been discriminated against because I have schooling in computers and that I am friends with his wife.No one else has been questioned it is all coming from my computer from what he states. I am to the point of quitting because of this however, I live in Ga and I don't know if I would be eligible to draw unemployment. I have never been reprimanded, I have received several raises for my work ethics, I have been there almost a year.His behavior towards me is really speratic almost bi-polar. It is completely focused on me individually. Can someone please help me by giving me some good advice on what I need to do. I am trying to hang in there so I might be able to draw UI, it is getting nastier every minute. Does hostile work enviroment fall under this category? Harrassment? Bullying? Abuse? Thanks!
Posts on this thread, including this one
- Wrongly accused, 1/11/08, by Wendy.
- Re: Wrongly accused, 1/14/08, by Terry.
- Re: Wrongly accused, 1/27/08, by Sir.
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