Re: extreme harrassment from ex-boyfriends friends and famil

More | Report Post

On 6/28/03, teenyone wrote:
> im not sure if im sending this to the right area, but i
> have a serious problem with my ex-boyfriend's friends and
> especially family. i am only 17 and my ex-boyfriend and i
> have had a rocky relationship, and every time there has
> been an incident, his family and friends have gone out of
> their way to harrass me about it. He is a great guy, but
he
> is torn between me and his family, defending each one to
> each other. i have been contacted in instant messages, and
> even when i have blocked them they have managed to get
> their message through. I have been called a slut, a whore,
> a bitch, etc. and have felt personally threatened when his
> sister (20 years old) called me his skinny ass girlfriend
> and said she could take me on. Following that comment, i
> told him that if she came near me i would have her
> arrested, and it stopped for awhile but it has started
> again. The sister has listened in on phone conversations,
> picking up little things i say and blowing them totally
out
> of porportion and making me look awful to his family. His
> friends have spread rumors, called me a whore and a slut.
> The entire situation has damaged my self-esteem and made
me
> feel extremly self concious about myself. it needs to
stop.
> However, since none of these people go to my high school,
i
> dont know how to approach it, as if they were i would
> report it to administration. what are my legal rights here
> and how should i go about defending myself?