Posted by JANIE PEREZ, lee_per@msn.com, on 7/16/03

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IT IS SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND HOW YOUR KIDS CAN GROWUP LOVING
YOU SO MUCH, THEN GET MARRIED AND HATE YOU FOR THINGS YOU
DID NOT DO. THEY FORGET ALL THE LOVE YOU GAVE THEM AND ALL
OF THE WONDERFUL TIMES YOU SHARED TOGETHER. THEN THEY HAVE
CHILDREN AND ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU CAN NOT SEE THEM, BECAUSE
THEIR WIFES DO NOT WANT YOU AROUND OR HATE YOU FOR THINGS
THAT SHE HAS DONE IN HER PAST AND KNOWS THAT YOU KNOW ABOUT
IT. YOU SEE THIS IS HAPPENING TO US. SINCE OUR DAUGTHTER -
IN-LAW FOUND OUT THAT I KNEW SHE WAS CHEATING ON MY SON
BEFORE THEY WERE MARRIED, BUT ALREADY LIVING TOGETHER, SHE
HAS TURNED HIM TOTALLY AGAINST ME. THE SAD THING IS THAT I
HAVE NOT TOLD MY SON ANY OF THE THINGS I LEARNED. YET SHE
FOUND OUT, BUT NOT BECAUSE I TOLD HER THAT I KNEW, BUT
BECAUSE SHE FOUND OUT BY A FRIEND THAT I KNEW. SO INSTEAD
OF TALKING IT OVER WITH ME, SHE TOLD MY SON I WAS SAYING
REAL BAD THINGS ABOUT HER THAT WERE NOT TRUE. I ONLY TOLD
MY HUSBAND, BUT WE BOTH DECIDED NOT TO SAY ANYTHING, BUT IT
WOULD KILL OUR SON, YET WE LOST HIM TO HER LIES. THEY JUST
HAD A BABY BOY 2 MONTHS AGO, BUT I CAN NOT SEE HIM. I AM
TALKING ANTI DEPRESSANT PILLS FOR OVER A YEAR NOW. I JUST
DO NOT UNDERSTAND HOW OUR SON COULD TURN HIS BACK ON US.
WE NOT ONLY LOST OUR SON, BUT OUR OTHER 2 SONS LOST THEIR
BROTHER. AND WE LOST OUR FIRST GRANDSON. CAN ANYONE TELL
ME IF THEIR IS ANY HOPE FOR US TO BE ABLE TO SEE OUR
GRANDSON, AND OUR OTHER 2 SONS GET TO SEE THEIR NEPHEW?
PLEASE IS THERE ANYONE THAT CAN GIVE US SOME HOPE?

Re: grandparents rights , 7/16/03, by sharwinston.

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