Re: Child Support Enforcement is a Violation of Men's Rights

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On 12/08/06, Jennifer wrote:
> I have to agree with you. I think that every man should have
> equal rights when it comes to parenting.
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> On 9/09/02, Mike wrote:
>> To the authors of these notations:
>> Men do have a right to consent according to the Constitution.
>> If a man has accepted his role as a father then yes he is bound
>> to that privledge (commonly irresponsibly uttered as
>> responsibility thanks to child support and sole custody awards).
>> If a man simply had sexual intercourse with a woman she
>> does not have the right to decide if he will become responsible
>> for that child if she chooses to conceive. The 14th amendment
>> guarantees equal protection of laws. Also equal liberties
>> (privileges and immunities) found under article 4, section 2,
>> and second sentence.
>> This brings to light the matter of child support...
>> Since parenting is an equal right under the Constitution how can
>> a woman or man assume they can seek sole custody? If both
>> parents are congruent Citizens the Constitution does not support
>> and flatly denies such an award of privilege. 14th amendment,
>> section 1.
>> This would indicate that parents must equally divide the
>> parenting role... like it or not that is the only fair way to
>> handle it. This is also in "the Childs best interest" the child
>> will see unity and not be divided from one parent or the other.
>> Your identification of a deadbeat dad... Stop! Listen to
>> what you just said and think about the current conditions. Turn
>> them 180 degrees. You cannot walk in a mans shoes. A man is
>> flatly denied custody and is slated to become an involuntary
>> servant. Is this what he agreed to? No it isn't, he agreed to be
>> a father and now you have allowed the courts to strip him of his
>> equal right. How would you feel if this happened to you... you
>> would be devastated? Don't believe for one second that a man
>> does not have feelings. Men do have feelings but they are not by
>> custom allowed to show them. This is precisely why many men act
>> as they do. For men who do not act this way... good for you but
>> don’t judge another guy because your situation may have differed
>> greatly and perhaps you didn’t give a rats about your
>> relationship. You had better wizen up, you are a victim also and
>> your life is drastically affected by legislation in this issue
>> regardless of your actions. Your child is being subjected to the
>> nuance of your unworthy role. Think about that impact and how
>> your Childs views will be forged. So... until men’s rights are
>> honored equally regarding this issue don't call another father a
>> dead beat dad when he has been literally raped of his most
>> sacred role in life! You cannot assume a father is a "dead beat"
>> until he has been afforded equal rights and has then dishonored
>> his role as a father. Until then… hold your judgment for the
>> creator’s courtroom.
>> Many of you are quick to Judge but you never think through
>> the whole issue before you speak. Think about that... you’re
>> getting screwed any way you cut it. As women you think you are
>> getting a good deal, your really getting the raw end of the
>> stick, so is the child and so is the father. You all loose.
>> Unless the legislation honors equality and equal rights we as a
>> nation all lose. Some how some way we all get shafted with the
>> current legislation.
>> I took the liberty to expound upon this topic much deeper.
>> Look uner the other Mikes entry.
I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING YOU'VE SAID, MY SON WORKS HARD EVERY DAY TO
SUPPORT HIS 3 CHILDREN THAT HE DOESN'T EVEN GET TO SEE, HE BRINGS
HOME 100.00 A WEEK AFTER DEDUCTIONS, IT COST HIM 80.00 A WEEK FOR
GAS TO GET TO WORK, PLUS THE DEDUCTIONS ARE NOT ENOUGH SO HE'S
BUILDING ARREARS. THERE'S GOT TO BE A BETTER SOLUTION. THE ONES
MAKING THESE LAWS MUST HAVE A PERFECT FAMILY LIFE.