Re: my mother took my baby girl

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On 10/30/02, Hawk wrote:
> On 10/29/02, Eric wrote:
>> I have a beautiful 3 year old girl. but, i lost costody to
>> my mother last december We was all in a big costody battle
>> and my mom called D.F.S. on me for going out and smoking
>> mari. one night they did a imediate drug test and i came up
>> positive . even thogh they didn't drug test her . and she's
>> the one i smoked with.Needless to say i lost costody and
>> visitation on her time emetiatly after she got costody she
>> sent me pack'n. In the mean time she has made my life a
>> living hell, she stole my credit cards , she has stolen
>> checks from me,and she has alienated me from my daughter.I
>> just want my baby back please help!!!!!!!!!
>
> Eric,
>
> You could win custody back but it would take a gargantuan
> effort on your part. That's because you shot yourself in the
> foot at the beginning of this debacle by submitting to a
> test. Next time you get "legal" and "actual" custody, MOVE
> OUT OF STATE.
>
> All states presume that it is in the child's best interest to
> be in the custody of a biologiocal parent. Since you do not
> say where the mother is, I'll assume she's out of the
> picture. Both the Mother and you have standing to undo this
> mess.
>
> First, you can file a motion or an action to regain custody.
> I'll assume there's a child neglect case open against you and
> that your mother was awarded temporary custody based upon the
> allegations against you. [If no case is filed yet, then
> you'll open one] If you defend yourself, you'll have to clean
> up your act to get the kid back. Undoubtedly they'll monitor
> you for awhile. While being monitored and having custody of
> the child, look for a job out of state. (that way this won't
> happen again, if you're smart)The court almost has to
> institute a reunification plan in cases of this type. This
> would be a LONG road because your mom will fight and make
> false allegations all the way.
>
> A better approach might be to sue DFS and your Mother for
> violating your civil rights at the same time you ask the
> court for your kid back. If what you say is true, the DFS and
> your Mother took a blood test without following proper
> criminal procedure. In other words, you consented to this
> mess -- but did you know that? were you threatened,
> intimidated, and coerced into submitting to a test? I have
> seen cases like this before where Grandma or Foster parent
> gets in bed with the DFS and steals child from parent. This
> is what makes the conspiracy and for a 42 USC 1983 case for a
> vilation of your civil rights. This suit is not for winning
> money, it's for negotiating to get your kid back. DFS doesn't
> like lawsuits especially of the grounds arestrong, and in
> your case, the grounds may be there.
>
> Finally, and you'd better learn this lesson now - NEVER,
> NEVER, NEVER ever cooperate with child protective agents for
> any reason unless your guilty as hell of child abuse and it
> is obvious. (the case against you is built on supposition -
> you got high - hence you neglected your kid) Cooperation from
> you is how child protection agencies build cases against
> people. Everything you say or do to a social worker is
> construed as abuse. These people (social workers) are usually
> not too bright and are brain washed to find abuse everywhere.
>
> That's why you must force them into court early on with their
> allegations. If you don't you will be in an endless parade of
> counselors, social workers, seminars and evaluations, all
> designed to make you into a fiend.
>
> You need to get in front of a Judge. The Judge might be scary
> to you, but you are still in the legally "superior" position
> to take care of your child. The Judge is a far better friend
> to you than the social worker who manufactured this. You need
> to get this into court. You also need help getting there. But
> you have the superior right and if you dedicate yourself to
> the3 fight you can win. It could take a year or so though.
> You'd have to educate yourself a bit. Fathers do have rights!
> Hang in there.

The social worker who manufactured what? Erik admits to using
an illegal drug. If his mother is even a more unfit parent
than he is or was, then that's a separate issue that needs to
be pursued.

Re: my mother took my baby girl, 11/23/02, by sharwinston.

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