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Re: DYFS degenerates
Posted by A DESPERATE MOTHER on 2/06/07

    I appreciate good dyfs workers but there are some of your workers who thinks it
    funny to legally kidnap peoples children. There are children that need your
    services but there are a lot of us who dont. And if we are doing the best we can
    why are we treated worse than criminals. They take peoples children because they
    dont have a big enough house, but the government will put the kids in a shelter
    with 20 beds in one room. So although you have valid points its alot of workers
    who could care less about the safety of the children and since you work there you
    know that what im saying is the truth!
    On 1/19/07, Ed wrote:
    > On 1/16/07, jessie wrote:
    >> On 6/05/06, Angel wrote:
    >>> I appreciate any DYFS worker that wants to help. I know there is abuse
    >>> and neglect happening on a daily basis. However, where is the common
    >>> sense? Did the social workers lose that in college? I have been stopped
    >>> in public places, complimenting me on what a wonderful mother I am (THAT
    >>> IS THE GOD's HONEST TRUTH!) & Yet I have had run ins with DYFS! Anyone
    >>> can make an accusation, people who have never met me or my child have made
    >>> accusations, and although they were unfounded, my family will always be
    >>> scared for the experience.
    >>> Why does DYFS think they need to remove kids from a home without thinking
    >>> things trough? Why dont they work harder at keeping the families together
    >>> insead of tearing them apart? & Putting kids in more harms way? When a
    >>> DYFS worker comes into your home & takes a happy healthy baby, they have
    >>> never even seen before from a clean, safe loving enviroment & sents them
    >>> to a dirty, bug infested home, with no clothes or drinkable water...that
    >>> is just as abusive as the parent beating their kid.
    >>> & From reading these posts, its not an isolated incident.......
    >>> On 3/11/06, Anthony wrote:
    >>>> Hi. I am a DYFS worker. Affected by the events of September 11 I left my
    >>>> previous job and joined the Division of Youth and Family Services, in the
    >>>> hopes I could better humanity in just a small fashion, by protecting
    >>>> children. And I do protect children. Privacy Laws forclose any attempt by
    >>>> me to defend myself and my profession or to provide examples of childen I
    >>>> have personally protected who are or have been under my caseload. To
    >>> those
    >>>> of you who believe we go home and forget about the anguish we've seen,
    >>>> both on the faces of the children and the parents, I can only say I wish
    >>>> you could see what I see and meet some of the case workers in my office,
    >>>> who, swimming against the tide and against all obstacles including the
    >>>> ones put there by DYFS itself, attempt to do the right thing, the moral
    >>>> thing day in and day out, at great cost to their health, their nervous
    >>>> systems and their sanity. Whoever you are Bri, you may have a moral
    >>>> argument against the Division, you may have been unjustly and royally
    >>>> screwed, but the venom you spew against people you don't know gives me
    >>>> pause. If everyone is innocent, why do the children keep dying at the
    >>>> hands of those who are supposed to love them? Is no one guilty of child
    >>>> abuse? Are DYFS workers "the scum of the earth?" How about sexual
    >>>> predators? Child Rapists? Child molestors? Parents who beat their kids
    >>>> until they have scars upon scars? Parents who use drugs or get drunk and
    >>>> drive with their kids in their cars? I guess it's the DYFS worker who is
    >>>> morally bankrupt. I guess in a society that no longer takes any
    >>>> responsibility for any of it's actions its the DYFS worker who destroys
    >>>> families and not a drug addict, or drunk, or child beater.
    >>>>
    >>>> On 1/27/06, Bri wrote:
    >>>>> AGREE. My 18 months experience with DYFS workers is that they are the
    >>>>> scum of the earth, morally bankrupt, vitriolic, egotistical destroyers
    >>>>> of families. DYFS = Destroyers of Youth and Family Service
    >>>>>
    >>>>>
    >>>>>
    >>>>> On 12/06/05, A Mother speaking up wrote:
    >>>>>> The people that responded to this and asked the person if DYFS was in
    >>>>>> their life all of the people that are invloved in DYFS are not bad
    >>>>>> and they are not there because of things that they have done. The
    >>>>>> people that work for the division are cruel and the only thing that
    >>>>>> they care about is the paycheck. The foster parents are worse most
    >>>>>> of the time then the birth parents. All the workers are thinking
    >>>>>> about is who life can I screw up now. THen after they tear the
    >>>>>> families apart they go home and lay and do not think twice about all
    >>>>>> the harm they have done. I hope they every DYFS worker has all the
    >>>>>> things done to their own familes and their pwn children what they are
    >>>>>> all doing to all the familes out there. They are the worst people on
    >>>>>> the face of this earth
    >>>>>>
    >>>>>> On 11/13/05, dan wrote:
    >>>>>>
    >>>>>>
    >>>>>>> On 10/28/05, N/A wrote:
    >>>>>>>> On 10/25/05, anonymous wrote:
    >>>>>>>>> On 2/02/04, DYFS worker wrote:
    >>>>>>>>>> On 11/28/02, Mike Delucca wrote:
    >>>>>>>>>>> Where are the equal rights for children? My son is being
    >>>>>>>>>>> tortured with the full knowledge and complicity of DYFS. My
    >>>>>>>>>>> son and thousands like him are being tortured and many
    >>>>>>>>>>> killed,and the degenerates that work for DYFS and similar
    >>>>>>>>>>> agencies not only fail to stop it but aid and abet in the
    >>>>>>>>>>> abuse.
    >>>>>>>>>>
    >>>>>>>>>>
    >>>>>>>>>> Mike,
    >>>>>>>>>>
    >>>>>>>>>> You call DYFS workers degenerates..let me ask you this. Why
    >>>>>>>>>> are you and your son involved with DYFS? DYFS becomes
    >>>>>>>>>> involved with families because of abuse and neglect
    >>>>>>>>>> allegations. So you have a problem with DYFS because someone
    >>>>>>>>>> made a referral on you for abusing or neglecting your son?
    >>>>>>>>>> How about you focus on being a good parent and less on the
    >>>>>>>>>> agency thats trying to help you.
    >>>>>>>>>
    >>>>>>>>> DYFS,
    >>>>>>>>> As a whole are degenerates.. Its because of arrogant pricks
    >>>>>>>>> like your self that people that do end up involved with DYFS
    >>>>>>>>> lash out. Dyfs is as disfunctional as the people it deals with.
    >>>>>>>>> Noone that works for DYFS is supposed to let their own personal
    >>>>>>>>> feelings cloud there judgment in any way, and yet this man
    >>>>>>>>> clearly states his frustration only to be cut down by some
    >>>>>>>>> moron that thinks he is doing some sort of good by degrading
    >>>>>>>>> someone else for his own personal gratification. sounds to me
    >>>>>>>>> like you should focus on your self esteem, and stop trying to
    >>>>>>>>> cram your oppinion of a father that you know nothing about...
    >>>>>>>> I agree...Because of some BIG misunderstanding, I have had the
    >>>>>>>> terror of having DYFS in my life. Now I know what everyone
    >>>>>>>> complains about. DYFS doesn't help familys, they tare them apart.
    >>>>>>>
    >>>>>>> And if DYFS would help the children who really need it and stop
    >>>>>>> trampling the rights of parents who ARE good parents buy protecting
    >>>>>>> their own asses things might not be so bad for children and families
    >>>>>>> in this state
    >> dyfs doesnt help you they tear families apart
    >>>>>>>>> TO THOSE WHO UNDERSTAND
    > I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH DYFS FOR A LITTLE OVER A YEAR NOW.It
    >>>>>>>>> started as a childsupport case went to a dyfs case then went to
    >>>>>>>>> criminal,then back to dyfs and childsupport.All you ever hear from
    >>>>>>>>> dyfs is the phrases (You have to understand) and my favorite is
    >>>>>>>>> (There is a red tape involved).I have expressed my concerns to DYFS
    >>>>>>>>> and the courts time after time and everytime it goes without a thing
    >>>>>>>>> being done about it.The courts say if there was a concern then they
    >>>>>>>>> need to hear it from DYFS and DYFS always says if there was a concern
    >>>>>>>>> the judge needs to make that call.The sad thing is there is nobody
    >>>>>>>>> between them and the in the end the children suffer.DYFS IS NOTHING
    >>>>>>>>> BUT EMPLOYEMENT AND THE STATE DOESN'T CARE ITS ALL ABOUT A PAY CHECK
    >>>>>>>>> UNITL IT HAPPENS TO THEM.IN MY OPINION THE ONLY WAY ANYBODY IS GOING
    >>>>>>>>> FIX ANYTHING OR EVEN START TO HAVE THINGS CHANGE IS FOR EVERYBODY TO
    >>>>>>>>> GET TOGETHER THE STATE CAN'T IGNORE A FEW HUNDRED OR THOUSAND PEOPLE
    >>>>>>>>> KNOCKING ON THEIR DOORSTEP.I believe there is a place for DYF but
    >>>>>>>>> the way the state has it set up is so wrong.There is no real support
    >>>>>>>>> execept a paycheck.Everything is a referal that takes weeks,months,
    >>>>>>>>> til something is done if it happens at all most of the time you get
    >>>>>>>>> we can't find someone to do that or everbody is full and not taking
    >>>>>>>>> new clients.I am a tax payer and with all the stuff I heard them tell
    >>>>>>>>> me they can't do I CURIOUS WERE IS MY MONEY AND EVERY OTHER TAX
    >>>>>>>>> PAYER GOING.We have the money for the budget for a new bridge or
    >>>>>>>>> highway etc but there is no money to send a kid to see a therapist.
    >>>>>>>>> The resources are very limited to help parents and children but the
    >>>>>>>>> state can pay someone to say stupid things to those in need and
    >>>>>>>>> destroy there lives forever...Instead of writting on this post we
    >>>>>>>>> need to get together and fight the system

     
     

 
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