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Re: DYFS degenerates
Posted by lisa on 3/01/07

    On 2/25/07, Ad wrote:
    > On 2/19/07, lisa wrote:
    >> any lunatic with a phone can disrupt your life . my husbands ex calls on us all
    >> the time. where are my rights? we always seem to get some condescending kid.(the
    >> last one was fresh out of college and all of 26) one of our kids is autistic and
    >> she had the audacity to ask why he didn't talk to her even after i explained he
    >> was non-verbal. i told her she should be after the real abusers and leave us
    >> alone. she kept the case open for 3 months which included a trip to the dr for a
    >> current report of my childs mental health. the one i had was 7 months old but
    >> apparently not good enough for her. grrrrrr.
    >
    >
    > Well if there were no allegations maybe she would not be on your case. DYFS does
    > not want to be knocking on your door if they don't have too. We are after the real
    > abusers. I'm sure it could have been you husband's ex calling the division on you,
    > however a referral is a referral and DYFS workers need to go and investigate in
    > case it was something serious. I wish people who use DYFS as a way to get back at
    > their friends or ex's could get some time in jail. We don't need more work than we
    > already have especially if it involves good parents.


    i know from a reliable source, that his ex has called on us 5 times to date. he is a
    different person with me than he was with her. he wants nothing more to do with her
    and she uses dyfs as a way to try to interfere with what we have here. my kids are
    healthy happy and in a clean home with plenty of food toys clothes and love. my kids
    are all in school full time and are very involved in our church.it's upsetting and
    intrusive to have the divison involed on any level in our universe. i have 3
    developmentally disabled kids. i have more than enough on my plate without have
    someone come in an inspect my life with a microscope and be uneducated in thier
    disabilities and be judgemental about them. my kids are my reason for being. they are
    my sole function in this life. how would you feel if someone came to you and
    questioned your parenting based on something that isn't true? you would be just as
    unhappy about it. you hear all the horror stories about dyfs and it becomes a real
    threat to your world.and then add in you aren't allowed to know who called on you,
    well it's frustrating. like i said where are my rights? false accusations slander
    there absolutly should be some form of justice for me and my family. it's traumatic
    for my kids to go thru the "interview". my son told me he felt like he was on one of
    those court shows. after hearing that from my then 7 year old, i would love nothing
    more than to see "someone" in jail over the false alligations.

     
     

 
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