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Re: DYFS degenerates
Posted by NAQUAWN on 3/19/07

    IF YOU THINK DYFS IS GOOD PLEASE READ MY STORY!@
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    AND SEE MY EVIDENCE THEY ARE DOING SOME REAL SHADY STUFF. PLEASE READ MY STORY
    On 8/11/06, Raynne wrote:
    > I agree that DYFS needs some serious changes - they have a good intention
    > and there are a lot of cities in jersey where the children are in danger.
    > However, there are a lot of "children" who work for them. Having a passion
    > for helping people should not mean you are qualified to deal with the daily
    > agony these workers deal with on a daily basis. You should be well educated
    > and preferably be a parent. I have noticed that those without children -
    > just toss your case around without care, because they just dont understand
    > what tearing apart a family can do. Dyfs workers have access to tons of
    > programs - and they dont even use half of them. They are too focused on what
    > their job is "to protect the welfare of the child" - that they are so
    > blinded on how to actually do their job. I have been involved on both ends
    > of dyfs - both as the one being concerned about and being the one being
    > hounded by. When they were caring for me, it was a different time and the
    > people who worked there actually cared about the person and not the case,
    > when they didn't have a desk full of papers of cases they either couldnt
    > handle or get to in time. Now - things are so different. Dyfs is
    > unorganized, nobody knows what the other hand is doing, they always have to
    > get second opinions or they cant even answer a single question without
    > having to talk to someone else. Why are these people who are so
    > unknowledgeable put in charge of peoples lives? Because they are so
    > overworked, your case will get shuffled around and it will take forever to
    > find out any truths (provided they are even looking), and they just wont
    > have time to even talk to you to find out whats going on. They dont want to
    > hear anything you have to say, all they care about is what they are being
    > told to do. Think of them all as puppets who only know how to go forward
    > when they are being told to by someone else. I don't know about you - but
    > that scares the hell out of me. Knowing that my kids future and my own are
    > in the hands of someone who doesnt have the time or the resources to treat
    > the case properly. They will try to keep your case open as long as possible,
    > even when there is no reason to - and its probably not so that they can keep
    > an eye on the child, but because it gives them more time to get involved in
    > your case and find the errors they made in the beginning (all the while your
    > life is still turned upside down with no changes in sight).
    > I have to reply to the dyfs worker who blew up at the other guy - I mean I
    > can understand you are upset because you are a dyfs worker - but dont wear
    > your heart on your sleeve. And I have to say that just because an allegation
    > was made - doesnt mean that something happened. There are false allegations
    > all the time made by both children and their friends and neighbors..etc. It
    > happens when people are so nosy to butt into your life but wont get nosy
    > enough to find out what the hell is going on in your family. So they send
    > the state in, thinking they are doing something good - and that family's
    > life is now turned upside down. They have to go through an appeal process so
    > that any abuse that was allegated is not on your record (because that
    > affects your employment). Not counting if the case goes to the courts for
    > anything. Try affording a lawyer in the state of NEW JERSEY or even one that
    > will deal with DYFS. They have to go to counseling, they have to get
    > counseling for their child, they have to pray that their child will tell the
    > truth or that their childs answer will be believed. There are plenty of dyfs
    > workers out there who only believe what they are told and automatically
    > assume that the child is lying because they are told to and then they dig
    > further into your lives trying to find something to grab a hold of to prove
    > that they are right. Because god knows the state cant be wrong. They will
    > search and search until they find 1 single piece of something that doesnt
    > exist but is able to be transformed into what they want so they dont look
    > stupid. The whole time they are doing this - they are threatening to take
    > your child away, or they do take your child away. Do you know how torturing
    > it is to the child and the parent to only be able to have a 1 hour visit per
    > week with your child that is supervised in a tiny room with no windows when
    > you are guilty of nothing? They dont care - its their job, its what their
    > supervisor allowed them to do. Now I am not saying that dyfs isnt being
    > caring, only that they are being overprotective of children they shouldnt be
    > and not protective enough of ones that need it. I have seen children who
    > have been abused - only for the kids to remain at home and the cases be
    > dropped. And I have seen children who were not abused and the case remains
    > open for years because they dont want to look like an ass. Dyfs has the
    > scary control over the custody of your child, the residence of your child,
    > anything at all - they only have to request it and a judge will grant it.
    > Why is there no hearing, why are the parents not allowed to go? Why is it so
    > easy for a dyfs worker who just feels like "oh well i dont see anything
    > going on and we will just remove the child to be sure" and they go and get a
    > judge and within days you lose your child and your rights as a parent. They
    > will tell you, oh no you are their parent but you do not have custody. Ok so
    > what does that mean? My name is on the birth certificate - is that the only
    > right I have to the child now...because everything else has to go through a
    > dyfs worker. Mind you - all of this ranting is not my situation - part of it
    > is mine, and part of it is what i've seen.
    > While DYFS is a good idea, the people they have working for them are a
    > majority ridiculous. Now there are some workers that yes - care deeply and
    > try their best. But if you work for dyfs - be realistic...no matter how much
    > you care about the case or feel it when you go home....you are overworked
    > and overwhelmed and there is no possible way that you are unbiased to
    > anything and can properly control anything you have on your desk. If the
    > state took the time to educate you properly and allowed you to make full use
    > of the programs that the tax payers pay for, maybe you would have more
    > control and the outcomes would be based on something more accurate and not
    > just a hunch or some strangers word. So while I feel for some of the people
    > employed at DYFS - I despise the division as a whole (as it stands today)
    > and the people who work for them and dont stand up for anything and act only
    > as puppets to another uneducated person who is only doing what they are told
    > to do.

     
     

 
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