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Re: DYFS degenerates
Posted by mothers pain on 4/02/07

    On 3/01/07, lisa wrote:
    > On 2/25/07, Ad wrote:
    >> On 2/19/07, lisa wrote:
    >>> any lunatic with a phone can disrupt your life . my husbands ex calls on us all
    >>> the time. where are my rights? we always seem to get some condescending kid.(the
    >>> last one was fresh out of college and all of 26) one of our kids is autistic and
    >>> she had the audacity to ask why he didn't talk to her even after i explained he
    >>> was non-verbal. i told her she should be after the real abusers and leave us
    >>> alone. she kept the case open for 3 months which included a trip to the dr for a
    >>> current report of my childs mental health. the one i had was 7 months old but
    >>> apparently not good enough for her. grrrrrr.
    >>
    >>
    >> Well if there were no allegations maybe she would not be on your case. DYFS does
    >> not want to be knocking on your door if they don't have too. We are after the real
    >> abusers. I'm sure it could have been you husband's ex calling the division on you,
    >> however a referral is a referral and DYFS workers need to go and investigate in
    >> case it was something serious. I wish people who use DYFS as a way to get back at
    >> their friends or ex's could get some time in jail. We don't need more work than we
    >> already have especially if it involves good parents.
    >
    >
    > i know from a reliable source, that his ex has called on us 5 times to date. he is a
    > different person with me than he was with her. he wants nothing more to do with her
    > and she uses dyfs as a way to try to interfere with what we have here. my kids are
    > healthy happy and in a clean home with plenty of food toys clothes and love. my kids
    > are all in school full time and are very involved in our church.it's upsetting and
    > intrusive to have the divison involed on any level in our universe. i have 3
    > developmentally disabled kids. i have more than enough on my plate without have
    > someone come in an inspect my life with a microscope and be uneducated in thier
    > disabilities and be judgemental about them. my kids are my reason for being. they are
    > my sole function in this life. how would you feel if someone came to you and
    > questioned your parenting based on something that isn't true? you would be just as
    > unhappy about it. you hear all the horror stories about dyfs and it becomes a real
    > threat to your world.and then add in you aren't allowed to know who called on you,
    > well it's frustrating. like i said where are my rights? false accusations slander
    > there absolutly should be some form of justice for me and my family. it's traumatic
    > for my kids to go thru the "interview". my son told me he felt like he was on one of
    > those court shows. after hearing that from my then 7 year old, i would love nothing
    > more than to see "someone" in jail over the false alligations.

    4/2/07 Mothers pain -
    I can relate on many aspects -some one called dyfs on our family and it has just been
    a nightmare that I keep waiting to wake up from.We also are church going family that
    abides by every law and completely follows rules and laws.We dot every I and cross
    every T .Our home is clean and our childrens toys are abundant. Plenty of food and
    love .Friends and family are all around.Never have I left my children even with any
    babysitters , other than competent family.Yet Dyfs continues to give our menstral 12
    year old powers in which she knows not what they can do.We have a case worker who
    continues to believe in her mind that there are as she says red flags in our family.The
    only red flags that are present is the Dyfs case worker who also has been caught lying
    about thing that supposedly happened in the meetings that she had with our
    daughter.WOOPS! yes she claimed things that were not even said and I confirmed this
    with the guidance office, who was in the meeting also.And what is this craziness that I
    as a parent cannot know who my child is speaking to and when , is that not my job.My
    daughter is not only playing alone with this new found power but is continueing to now
    make demands or she will come up with something else to talk with Dyfs about.Giving
    children the power to not only control siblings lives but also control parental rights
    is not only dangerous it is destructive.We as parents have lost control of our
    children because DYFS says that it is all in the name of protecting them , children
    from good solid homes who have parents who care enough about them to set rules that
    they don't want to follow.Shame on us for trying to raise decent soon to be
    adults.Remember these children are the one that have to run the world after we are to
    old to ,This may just be when revelations comes.A world where rules are no good and
    abolish any person trying to set them.Thanks to Dyfs for teaching them that they don't
    have to listen to there parents ,just lie,and then soon after DYFS will give the kid
    the right to control you like a puppet or else.

     
     

 
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