Re: unwed mothers rights vs. fathers

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Do about what?
What's your issue with all of this?
If you want nothing to do with the alleged biodad and you want him to
have no contact with your child, then do nothing.

On 2/15/08, Ashley wrote:
> I found out I was Pregnant at 27 weeks due to a huge mistake by my
> doctor. NO time to plan and that was very stressful much less the fact
> my whole life changed in one doc appt. I had to think about who was
> the father of my son and how to explain this to him. I had 2 men to
> test. The first was not a match, the second was positive and I didn't
> want him to have anything to do with my son. I decided not to tell
> him, and I now I fear that I will get into trouble. I just wanted what
> is best for my son. This man has 3 children and I have never seen him
> take care of them. And I have just learned that he has another on the
> way. I have excepted the fact that I am taking full responsibility for
> my son and don't want to have to face any problems, but I need advice
> on what to do. I am afraid to tell anyone because I don't want to mess
> up any relationship he has with his kids, Or do I want to confront him
> about my son, I don't feel he has the time or money to support my
> child, nor do I need or want any help. What should I do? Please any
> advice will do!