Re: Biodad parental rights- Please help me out!!!! -- Shar

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But Sharly, She luuuuuuuvs him. Can't you see the beauty in that?

On 11/01/07, sharwinston wrote:
> oh, puullleeeze.
> Do you really think that deadbeat will hire an attorney?
> Not likely.
>
> To get him to stop harassing you: Don't take his phone
> calls. Don't read his e-mails. You have a delete/erase key
> on your computer/telephone. Use it!
>
> If he has not legally estalbished his paternal rights to the
> child, he has no rights whatover to your child.
> Therefore, custody is NOT -- repeat NOT -- an issue until he
> first legally establishes his paternity. And, once he does
> that, your child is entitled to child support from him. If
> he establishes paternity, he will likely be entitled to some
> visitation unles the court determines it is not in the child
> best interests (and denial of all visitation is exceedinglyl
> rare). But sole legal and physical custody -- it ain't
> gonna happen. And, shared custody is unlikely. But,
> visitation, he will get unless the court determines
> otherwise.
>
> Meanwhile, stop freakin'. And for God's sake: Don't listen
> to his threats. It's all flush material.
>
>
> On 11/01/07, Kimberly wrote:
>> My name is Kim. I had my daughter Kali in June. I was with
>> her biodad for about 11 months total. Before I became
>> pregnant with Kali, I called the police and biodad -Mike-
>> was arrested for battery because he hit me (He was
>> arressted other times for this-not with me- and for other
>> things like drugs, and had a $50,000 bail for my case
>> against him). I also put a restraining order on him. When
> I
>> found out that I was pregnant, for some reason, I wanted
> to
>> try and work things out with Mike. I dropped the
>> restraining order against him and he ended up pleading No
>> Contest to his charges. He was put on probation and had to
>> attend an anger management class.
>>
>> In April of this year, I left Mike and moved up to Georgia
>> with my family because he told me that "things weren't
>> going to work out between us" and that he didn't love me
>> anymore. I had Kali in GA with my family. Mike asked to
> not
>> be on her Birth Certificate and told me that he did not
>> want anything to do with her. He has never paid child
>> support or done anything for her.
>>
>> He recently has been harassing me about wanting to see
> Kali
>> and about us getting back together. I have told him NO
> many
>> times and have asked him to just please leave us alone. He
>> will not stop calling, text messaging, and e-mailing me. I
>> am changing my cell phone number and have been thinking
>> about putting another restraining order on him. He has
> said
>> that he will hire a lawyer to gain some custody of Kali.
>>
>> I am afraid of this man and I don't want my daughter to
>> come into contact with him. Please help me out. I'm not
>> sure what he can do or what rights he has but I will do
>> anything to protect her (and myself) from him.
>>
>> Thanks
>>