Posted by Lorri on 4/26/08

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My Fiancé’s(of 20 years) daughter is 30 years old, last
weekend or the beginning of this week she spanked her
middle son (who is 4years old) with a plastic flimsy
flyswatter, like most children do when they are being
spanked he began squirming and moving around trying to not
get spanked, he POSSIBLY go a couple of marks on him. The
Maternal grandmother(who neglected her own children when
the daughter was 8 years old) called CPS on 4/24 and
reported her own daughter without talking to her daughter
about the supposed marks first. Thursday the daughter told
CPS, that under NO circumstances is the Maternal
grandmother to have any contact with her children, (as 2
years ago the mother called CPS on her daughter and made
FALSE ALLEGATIONS against her daughter, the CPS went to
the daughters home, did an investigation based on the
maternal grandmothers accusations, found the accusations
were false and unfounded and IMMEDIATELY closed the case)
because for WHATEVER REASON the maternal grandmother is
OBSESSED with the 4 year old grandson and has wanted him
for herself for years. The daughter stated that she wanted
the maternal grandfather to care for the children, as he
is the one that raised his 3 children on his own with NO
HELP OR SUPPORT from their mother, CPS told my fiancé’s
daughter that since I reside in the home with her dad and
dealt with CPS myself in 1988(since turned my life around
& graduated with an AAS in Paralegal studies) that he was
INELIGIBLE to have the grandchildren placed with him, her
older sister also told CPS, that their mother NEGLETED
THEM, and that she will take the nephews into her home(CPS
said they have to do a home study & background check on
her sister & brother in law). Then yesterday 4/25 the CPS
caseworker, after assuring the daughter on 4/24 that the
maternal grandmother would HAVE NO CONTACT with the
children told the daughter on 4/25 that the maternal
grandmother( I have documented proof of her neglect &
abuse involvement with CPS regarding her OWN children &
who NEVER compiled with the court orders regarding her
children, and who is still $20 - $40, 000.00 in child
support arrears (the Maternal grandfather has documented
proof of total compliance & cooperation with everything
the court asked him to do to get his children back with
him)) would in all probability be where the children ARE
PLACED. And this is GOING AGAINST the mothers wishes, and
her parental rights HAVE NOT been terminated… What are her
rights, and is the maternal grandfather allowed to have
the children placed with him even though I reside in the
home (I have been in the daughters & siblings lives since
they were 5, 8, 9 years old, and been in the
grandchildren’s lives since they were born, they are MY
GRANDBABIES.) I did tell the daughter that she is ENTITLED
to a COURT APPOINTED ATTORNEY…

Thank you,
Lorri

Re: Fiance's Daughter's children removed by CPS in Indiana, 8/12/09, by Dee.

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