Posted by Jojo on 5/04/08

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My sons father, whom denied my son for the first 16 months
of his life and refused to sign the birth certificate when
my son was born. when my son was 16 months old he calls me
out of the clear blue and asks if he can see the baby. I
was living with my parents at the time, who were
supporting me and my son so I could pay off the 12
thousand dollars my sons father put me in while we were
together. I wanted my son to know his father, I talked
this over with my parents to see what they thought of
letting him see the baby. My parents were totally against
letting him see the baby, told me I would regret letting
him see the baby. But would stand by what ever I chose to
do because the child is mine not theirs. my sons father
had a total of 6 visits with my son with a total of 4
hours in those 6 visits. Then he demands to take our son
for a weekend. I told him he could take the baby for a
weekend when the baby could talk and the baby should get
to know him more. He did not like that and said i will
see you in court. we went to court. the court order stated
that he could have 3 suppervised visits and after the 4th
he could take the child for 8 hours on his own. I feel
the courts did not take the best interest of the child,
handing him over to a stranger. but it was a court order
and i could not go against the court order. the father was
ordered to pay child suport.
we went back to court for a final hearing, the court order
states my sons father will have the child every other
weekend 2 weeks in the summer and alternate holidays. Oh
yeah he also can claim this child every other year on his
taxes. his suport don't even cover day care expenses, and
he paid nothing for the first two years of this childs
life. He informed me a few weeks ago of the vacation time
he is requesting the court order says two weeks he wants
the weeks to be split first week starting on my weekend
and keeping our son into his weekend. that would be 10
days. for the second week he wants to do the same that
will be another 10 days my counting says that is very
close to 3 weeks. I agreed with the time he wanted but I
want the same. he is taking two of my weekends with our
son I would like two of his weekends. and he is saying NO
he will not agree to this. He is very unreasonable and he
can not be talked to. he has yelled and screamed at me
calling me very bad names while my son has been with him.
he is angry that he has to pay child suport. every time he
calls he asks if i am enjoying living high off the hog
with his child suport payments. He is paying 130 a week,
which is being taken out of his check by child suport
becasue he was not paying like he should have been. Day
care is 189. a week. It breaks my heart every time my son
has to go with his father, he begs me not to send him. He
don't want to go with him. my son started wetting his
pants every other friday when he has to go with his
father. I asked my son why he does not want to go to
Daddys house and my son has told me Daddy is bad to you,
Daddy says mommy is bad. This man is playing head games
with a 3 year old child. This rips my heart out. I have
been very giving to this man but he does not give at all.
does any one have any suggestions for me.

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