Re: Unreasonable Dad

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Take him back to court, thats the only way you can MAYBE get
less time with him, but there is a 50/50 chance that you won't
be able to reduce the time. If he can afford 2 vacations a
year, it sounds like he can be paying for the daycare expenses
at the least, take him back for a child support modification
hearing. Good luck.

On 5/04/08, Jojo wrote:
> My sons father, whom denied my son for the first 16 months
> of his life and refused to sign the birth certificate when
> my son was born. when my son was 16 months old he calls me
> out of the clear blue and asks if he can see the baby. I
> was living with my parents at the time, who were
> supporting me and my son so I could pay off the 12
> thousand dollars my sons father put me in while we were
> together. I wanted my son to know his father, I talked
> this over with my parents to see what they thought of
> letting him see the baby. My parents were totally against
> letting him see the baby, told me I would regret letting
> him see the baby. But would stand by what ever I chose to
> do because the child is mine not theirs. my sons father
> had a total of 6 visits with my son with a total of 4
> hours in those 6 visits. Then he demands to take our son
> for a weekend. I told him he could take the baby for a
> weekend when the baby could talk and the baby should get
> to know him more. He did not like that and said i will
> see you in court. we went to court. the court order stated
> that he could have 3 suppervised visits and after the 4th
> he could take the child for 8 hours on his own. I feel
> the courts did not take the best interest of the child,
> handing him over to a stranger. but it was a court order
> and i could not go against the court order. the father was
> ordered to pay child suport.
> we went back to court for a final hearing, the court order
> states my sons father will have the child every other
> weekend 2 weeks in the summer and alternate holidays. Oh
> yeah he also can claim this child every other year on his
> taxes. his suport don't even cover day care expenses, and
> he paid nothing for the first two years of this childs
> life. He informed me a few weeks ago of the vacation time
> he is requesting the court order says two weeks he wants
> the weeks to be split first week starting on my weekend
> and keeping our son into his weekend. that would be 10
> days. for the second week he wants to do the same that
> will be another 10 days my counting says that is very
> close to 3 weeks. I agreed with the time he wanted but I
> want the same. he is taking two of my weekends with our
> son I would like two of his weekends. and he is saying NO
> he will not agree to this. He is very unreasonable and he
> can not be talked to. he has yelled and screamed at me
> calling me very bad names while my son has been with him.
> he is angry that he has to pay child suport. every time he
> calls he asks if i am enjoying living high off the hog
> with his child suport payments. He is paying 130 a week,
> which is being taken out of his check by child suport
> becasue he was not paying like he should have been. Day
> care is 189. a week. It breaks my heart every time my son
> has to go with his father, he begs me not to send him. He
> don't want to go with him. my son started wetting his
> pants every other friday when he has to go with his
> father. I asked my son why he does not want to go to
> Daddys house and my son has told me Daddy is bad to you,
> Daddy says mommy is bad. This man is playing head games
> with a 3 year old child. This rips my heart out. I have
> been very giving to this man but he does not give at all.
> does any one have any suggestions for me.