Re: Ex filed false police report

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I'd have to say that you are boned my friend. You are a
man, right? She's a woman? Have you opened your front door
and taken a whiff of the political climate? She can quite
literally get away with murder and pin it on you if she so
chooses. I've been through a situation similar to yours,
but far more destructive and am barely alive at this point,
so I feel for you, I really do. I think the only thing you
can really do that will be of any benefit is to join up with
a men's rights group and help to change the political
climate that allows things like this to happen. Best
regards, and best of luck!!

On 7/24/08, Jon wrote:
> My ex and I just finalized paternity/custody/child support
> court case. I had to file on her. Our son is now 8 mo.
50/50
> shared legal with her having primary residency. I get EOW
> and wednesdays and 3 weeks summer (up to 2 weeks
> consecutive). The order was signed June 20, 2008. We split
> up almost a year ago, but she keeps telling me she wants to
> come back. She says that everytime there is a court date
> coming up. This time it was right after I requesting my
> summer parenting time. Now during an exchange of our son
she
> wanted to talk about coming back. She had told me her
> parents were kicking out and she wanted to come back. I
told
> her she could rent my spare room. So she came over and she
> started getting irrational when she found out my father had
> purchased a small parakeet for our son. So I told her that
> she would have to let me know at that point if she wanted
to
> come back. Then she told me she wanted to try to get her
own
> place and I told her I wasn't going to wait. So she decided
> to leave. I walked her to the car some words were exchanged
> and she got very irate. She tried to put our son in his
> carseat but dropped him on the back seat. I picked him up
> and held him. She wanted him back and I told her not until
> she calmed down. She then calmed down and I gave our son
> back to her and she put him in the car. She then got in the
> driver seat and I shut her door (I always do this) and she
> pulled away so fast and wreckless she almost ran me over.
So
> she went to the police station and filed a report (now I
> have a warrant out for my arrest and I intend to surrender
> w/my atty) and then filed for an ex parte pp and she filed
a
> pp for my parents. She states that I am stalking her, my
> parents are stalking her. The judge denied the ex parte and
> wants to see us all in court. Now she has given the judge
an
> email that my mom had sent her but she had altered it. She
> had told the judge that my mother had pushed her while she
> was pregnant when she moved out (the police were present).
> My explanation of the events are not the same as her and
> obviously there were no witnesses. I had called the police
> later that evening and had asked them what I needed to do
> because her father had threatened my life because my ex
> claims I punched the car. The police then said they had a
> 911 call on record. Not sure if it was while my ex and I
> were arguing or when I was arguing with her father. So at
> this point I am not sure what to do. Any advice would help.
> Thank you