Re: Child support or not?
Posted by sharwinston on 9/07/08

I suggest your husband get an attorney becaue YOU have no
standing and, thereofre, no say so in this matter. Nothing
you say or do means anything.

He can write 1 million letters -- they mean nothing. The
parent or parents must get the court order modified. Until
then, the court's order remaissn in full force and effect --
no matter where the child lives.

So, he can write all the letters he wants -- but it does
nothing to change the court order. Only a court order can
change a previous court order.

On 9/02/08, Wendy wrote:
> Short version: Husband has custody of son (15). Son wants
> to live with bio mom. Creates a tornado by stating to
> commit suicide if he doesn't live with mom. Turned over to
> hospital. Hospital states for liabilty reasons to have son
> live with a third party while taking med. and counseling
> to try to solve problem. Son stays with grandmother for 2
> days and moves in with bio mom against custodial fathers
> wishes/knowledge and court order. Law enforcement refuses
> to get involved to get son so now after 6 months of going
> through the court system and son staying at bio moms house
> she wants exhusband to write a letter to child support
> explaining the son lives with her so she doesnt have to
> pay support. Her attorney dropped her our attorney has not
> called us back yet. It is court ordered for her to pay
> support. She is in arrears of course over 10 grand. She
> currently is ordered to pay on both children. The child
> was never to go to her home it was not ordered or agreed
> upon. He was to stay at grandmothers home. Where does he
> stand legally. If he writes the letter she will inturn
> take it to the school and alienate bio dad of information.
> Oh yes, she also has a child support warrant on her. What
> would you suggest we do?

Posts on this thread, including this one

• Child support or not?, 9/02/08, by Wendy.
• Re: Child support or not?, 9/07/08, by sharwinston.
• Re: Child support or not?, 9/09/08, by Wendy.
• Re: Child support or not?, 9/09/08, by sharwinston.
• Re: Child support or not?, 9/10/08, by Wendy.
• Re: Child support or not?, 9/10/08, by sharwinston.
• Re: Child support or not?, 9/11/08, by Wendy.
• Re: Child support or not?, 9/11/08, by sharwinston.