Re: Child support or not?

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Good, then you're not disappointed.

And, btw: I'm flattered all too hell that you read my posts to even know
what "answer I supply mostly."

On 9/11/08, Wendy wrote:
> The answer you supply mostly. Expected as usual.
>
> On 9/10/08, sharwinston wrote:
>> The tick's opinion of the matters only to the tick.
>>
>> On 9/10/08, Wendy wrote:
>>>
>>> by much. I did not ask for an opinion but I got it anyway because
>>> of my relationship to the question. I never indicated you wasted
>>> your time but I do feel you need to know what was advised legally
>>> about the situation so maybe you can help someone else in the
>>> future. There are always different answers to one question. I
>>> really don't understand why you take things so personal here.
>>> Really, you could of saved your time with the sarcasm and meaness
>>> and focussed on helping people. After all it doesn't take talent
>>> to be mean although it may in your utopia.
>>>
>>>
>>> On 9/09/08, sharwinston wrote:
>>>> Your husband and you have an attorney and you want a quick
>>>> answer to an important legal question from a stranger on some
>>>> chatboard and then bitch about the free help you get & argue
>>>> about it to boot... well, why didn't you just say so from the
>>>> get-go that you were opinion shopping & I wouldn't have wasted
>>>> my time because you are obviously from the Land of "I want only
>>>> the opinions of those with whom I can agree." I've never been
>>>> there, but I hear it's a real fantasy.
>>>>
>>>> On 9/09/08, Wendy wrote:
>>>>> I never implied that it was just me that was going to do
>>>>> something. I used the term "we". I may not have full say in
>>>>> front of the judge but as me and my husband have a mutual
>>>>> understanding that what ever decisions we make effects the
>>>>> entire family unit. Everything we say or do means very much.
>>>>> Ironically I was asked last time in court by the judge if he
>>>>> granted my husband full custody if it would strain our newly
>>>>> wed relationship to much. I guess I do have somewhat of a
>>>>> standing. Also, as implied in the question WE do have an
>>>>> attorney but I thought (silly me) I could jot a quick question
>>>>> on this board and get an unbias and helpful answer while
>>>>> waiting his call back.
>>>>>
>>>>> As odd as it may seem, it will only take one letter to halt
>>>>> the child support obligation. This information came from the
>>>>> judges clerk, attorney, and CSR. They would assume by the
>>>>> submission of a letter that both parties have consented and
>>>>> agreed on the change of obligation. That one letter (not a
>>>>> million)is enough.
>>>>>
>>>>> This is the second time that I have asked a legal question and
>>>>> it has been responded to in a negative manner due to being the
>>>>> step parent. The last question was never commented on except
>>>>> to ask how I pertained to the situation then it never went any
>>>>> further. It is not just my husband going through this it is
>>>>> all of us. It would be nice to ask a question and get a
>>>>> response that is in some respect professional and
>>>>> unopinionated based upon the relationship of the person asking
>>>>> it.
>>>>>
>>>>> Thanks
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>>
>>>>> On 9/07/08, sharwinston wrote:
>>>>>> I suggest your husband get an attorney becaue YOU have no
>>>>>> standing and, thereofre, no say so in this matter. Nothing
>>>>>> you say or do means anything.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> He can write 1 million letters -- they mean nothing. The
>>>>>> parent or parents must get the court order modified. Until
>>>>>> then, the court's order remaissn in full force and effect --
>>>>>> no matter where the child lives.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> So, he can write all the letters he wants -- but it does
>>>>>> nothing to change the court order. Only a court order can
>>>>>> change a previous court order.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On 9/02/08, Wendy wrote:
>>>>>>> Short version: Husband has custody of son (15). Son wants
>>>>>>> to live with bio mom. Creates a tornado by stating to
>>>>>>> commit suicide if he doesn't live with mom. Turned over to
>>>>>>> hospital. Hospital states for liabilty reasons to have son
>>>>>>> live with a third party while taking med. and counseling
>>>>>>> to try to solve problem. Son stays with grandmother for 2
>>>>>>> days and moves in with bio mom against custodial fathers
>>>>>>> wishes/knowledge and court order. Law enforcement refuses
>>>>>>> to get involved to get son so now after 6 months of going
>>>>>>> through the court system and son staying at bio moms house
>>>>>>> she wants exhusband to write a letter to child support
>>>>>>> explaining the son lives with her so she doesnt have to
>>>>>>> pay support. Her attorney dropped her our attorney has not
>>>>>>> called us back yet. It is court ordered for her to pay
>>>>>>> support. She is in arrears of course over 10 grand. She
>>>>>>> currently is ordered to pay on both children. The child
>>>>>>> was never to go to her home it was not ordered or agreed
>>>>>>> upon. He was to stay at grandmothers home. Where does he
>>>>>>> stand legally. If he writes the letter she will inturn
>>>>>>> take it to the school and alienate bio dad of information.
>>>>>>> Oh yes, she also has a child support warrant on her. What
>>>>>>> would you suggest we do?