Re: visiations are unsafe

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What state is this? I have a site for PA.

On 9/29/08, stace1319 wrote:
> My ex was ordered a phase in visitation since he hadn't
> seen her since she was 2 months old.. he didn;t see her
> again untill the DNA test came back and she was 14 months
> old. He stated that he will sign over his rights but only
> through a court because he keeps stating that he doesn;t
> trust lawyers. Is there anyway we can do this through a
> court? He has told me many things that he has done that
> makes me very uneasy about letting my daughter around him.
> He is a drug addict and he been accused of child
> mullestation, but he said it was never proven.. I didn't
> know all this untill the end of the relationship. I broke
> it off for the safety of my daughter. Since his supervised
> visits, he has brought friends with him, the last time he
> met with 5 guys outside then and stared at my car untill
> my mother picked her up and brought her in.( he stalked me
> for months after i broke up with him and has made
> statements that makes me wonder if he still is) Then he
> went in with 2 men. He has also brought a gun with him on
> one visit and had it in the front seat of his car. He is
> supposed to be able to take her to his home alone next
> month and I just can't do that. I'm fear for the safety of
> my daughter. Nobody is even confortable taking her down
> there anymore. What can I do? I need help asap! Also.. If
> I have to get proof on all the things he states he has
> done, how can I do that without paying alot of money on a
> background check? Is there any way I can see public
> records without paying money for them?