Re: she gave her baby the last of the man who is not the fat

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On 10/29/08, sharwinston wrote:
> The "OW" can give her baby any last name she wants.
>
> Your husband has absolutely no rights whatsoever to know
> anything about the OW's child unless/until a court with
> jurisdiction determines your husband is biodaddy.
>
> No, your children do not have the right to know if the OW's
> child might be their half-siblikng until/unless a court with
> jurisdiction determines that your husband is biodaddy.
>
> It appears you're pointing your finger and thus the blame
> for this situation at the wrong person.
>
> YOU don't do anything in this situation because YOU have no
> rights and no standing to do matter.
>
> And since your husband didn't ask for any guidance, it thus
> appears he doesn't want to DO anything now.
>
> On 10/29/08, amy wrote:
>> my husband had an affair and the ow got pregnant,he and
>> aboout 4 others were poss father's she however claimed him
>> as the father and told everyone he was. he tried to
>> contact her right before birth she wouldny give him info.
>> now baby is here she gave him her boyfriends last name and
>> now my husband & i working things out also have children
>> involved and she made sure my oldest found out and now she
>> dont want husband involved. where does that leave him it
>> really bothers me to know that my children may have a
>> brother they have the right to know. this ow thinks its a
>> funny game,she destroyed my parents marriage befor this
>> shes def noy motherly type what do we do leave well enough
>> alone and hope he's not my husband and hope that he will
>> be took care of