Re: lander, Deprivation of Character

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If this was all about M-E then why would i be on a custody
chat board instead on a civil chat board? And what they call
me and their step-dad does matter, it is doing mental damage,
i just don't know how much, because i can't take them to a
therapist. She has primary physical and legal custody. I don't
want to sue for the slander, i want it to stop when it is
being said directly to my children. no child should have to
hear any negative thing about either parent.

On 5/21/09, Rob wrote:
> I have 2 girls 5 and 6 that live w/ their mom & stepfather.
> I’m currently seeing my kids every other Sat for 8 hrs, &
> fighting with her every time a holiday comes up so I can see
> them. Ever since visits have begun on Feb 2006 their mom &
> at the time bf have been pressuring the kids to call him
> dad, & me by my first name. The kids only do this when they
> are around their mom. In the past the kids have called my
> fiancée “mom”, my oldest tells me that if the do that, they
> get put in time out. I don’t have the $ to take her back to
> court or the legal rights to take them to a therapist. She
> has also told them that I never wanted them & that is the
> reason that I left, not that she kicked me out. She
> continues to badmouth me in front of my kids & any friends
> or family members of mine that she runs into. Also, I
> suspect some sort of physical abuse, they always have
> bruises. She continues to tell people that she thinks that
> I’m doing it, & trying to blame her new husband. Can I take
> her to court for Slander, Deprivation of Character, more
> time w/ my children & or full custody? What would my chances
> be if I did this w/out a lawyer? Can I take them 2 a
> therapist w/out any legal custody? What can I do?