Re: lander, Deprivation of Character

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Rob, my advice to you (not legal just experience) if you feel you
can't get a lawyer and need some sound advice look further on the
internet. I have been on this board before and have never gotten
any good advice. Google "family law forum". There are a few good
ones out there. They all have some sort of bashing to say but in
reality there is some good advice out there. Good luck.

On 5/25/09, sharwinston wrote:
> Chatboard! Smatboard! What board you are or not on has squat
> to do with anything.
>
> Get off this 'effin chatboard & seek legal advice from a
> licensed legal professional and try to regain sole legal and
> physical custody of your children.
>
> Assuming arguendo, by some miracle you did get sole legal &
> physical custody of your children, you can not control what
> she says to the children because she will get some visitation
> unless the court should determine that visitation with her
> should be supervised, which is highly rare.
>
> Stop making this all about Y-O-U and the names you think your
> ex is calling you.
>
> On 5/24/09, Rob wrote:
>> If this was all about M-E then why would i be on a custody
>> chat board instead on a civil chat board? And what they call
>> me and their step-dad does matter, it is doing mental damage,
>> i just don't know how much, because i can't take them to a
>> therapist. She has primary physical and legal custody. I
> don't
>> want to sue for the slander, i want it to stop when it is
>> being said directly to my children. no child should have to
>> hear any negative thing about either parent.
>>
>> On 5/21/09, Rob wrote:
>>> I have 2 girls 5 and 6 that live w/ their mom & stepfather.
>>> I’m currently seeing my kids every other Sat for 8 hrs, &
>>> fighting with her every time a holiday comes up so I can see
>>> them. Ever since visits have begun on Feb 2006 their mom &
>>> at the time bf have been pressuring the kids to call him
>>> dad, & me by my first name. The kids only do this when they
>>> are around their mom. In the past the kids have called my
>>> fiancée “mom”, my oldest tells me that if the do that, they
>>> get put in time out. I don’t have the $ to take her back to
>>> court or the legal rights to take them to a therapist. She
>>> has also told them that I never wanted them & that is the
>>> reason that I left, not that she kicked me out. She
>>> continues to badmouth me in front of my kids & any friends
>>> or family members of mine that she runs into. Also, I
>>> suspect some sort of physical abuse, they always have
>>> bruises. She continues to tell people that she thinks that
>>> I’m doing it, & trying to blame her new husband. Can I take
>>> her to court for Slander, Deprivation of Character, more
>>> time w/ my children & or full custody? What would my chances
>>> be if I did this w/out a lawyer? Can I take them 2 a
>>> therapist w/out any legal custody? What can I do?