Re: It's complicated

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Dear Jane,

I assume your d-i-l--never seen it written like that
before, but that's cool--is the mohter of your grandson.
A lot would depend on whether your son and she are still
married; if not, who got custody in the divorce, and such.
I would need a bit more information to answer your question.
Feel free to call me at (337) 802-4041 and discuss this with
me.

Sincerely,

Pierre Quebodeaux, J.D.

On 1/05/13, Jane Doe wrote:
> My daughter-in-law abducted my grandson from our home and
> told the police she did this because we are drug users,
> which we are not, and she said the house was unsafe for the
> child. We have all lived here together for over 4 years. My
> grandson is almost 3 1/2. My husband and I are in our 60's
> and retired. My d-i-l just hates me because I caught her
> stealing drugs and hypodermic needles from her employer and
> using them in my house. I gave her a 2nd chance and told
> her if I ever caught her doing this again, I would throw
> her out, and without her son. I caught her again. She got
> scared and ran away with my grandson while no one was
> around. She went to the police and DCF, who came to our
> house to talk to us about the allegations. I've raised 4
> children and they have never been in trouble, and neither
> have my husband and I. And I NEVER had the humiliation of
> DFC come to my home. I believe she had to make up something
> to avoid charges of criminal custodial interference after
> taking my grandson from my son. Can the police use this
> heresay statement from her as evidence to conduct a raid on
> our home? We're in nj.
>
> P.S. I went to the police in her employer's town and filed
> a report as to what she had done. The police did nothing
> except to go to her employer to tell him about the report
> and ask if he wanted to have her arrested. He declined. So
> I reported that to the DEA, because my understanding is
> that if a Doctor is aware of the theft of narcotics from
> his office he is compelled to report it to the DEA, that
> it's not up to his discretion. I reported it to the DEA so
> they can follow up.