Post: Childsupport increase/joint custody

Posted by Doug White, arizona_01_2000@yahoo.com, on 1/06/02
I am seeking advice on a childsupport issue. I am the father that pays childsupport. I have paid since we were divorced in 93' & have spent holidays, vacations, etc. with my daughter. I have not neglected her what so ever. I worked 2, sometimes 3 jobs & was going to college full time when she left me. I joined the Army went over seas & was only able to see my daughter 6 times in 4.5 years. Once in 95' where I came home from Germany & the whole trip cost me 3,500 dollars. Anyways, to make a long story short, I send my daughter home after spending Christmas together & because I didn't mail her stuff to her my daughters mother threatened to raise my childsupport payments. My question is, I am in Montana & she is in Arizona. I want to know how I can go about getting at least joint custody. I am not forcing my daughter to live with me, but I have gone 10 years watching her grow up in pictures & I feel I deserve to be there for her & have a part in her raising. My ex's new husband that she has been with for 9+ years now has custody of his son & his ex-wife is approx. 35,000 dollars behind in child support. How can I fight this whole stupid deal & win back the rights of being the father to my daughter & not having this affair having, non-working, control wanting woman unable to mess with me ever again. Please contact me at the above email if you have any answers, questions, or suggestions....Greatfully appreciated.....
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