Post: Exboyfriend is my boss

Posted by Noreen Strong, odinnwolfe@bright.net, on 6/22/02
First I would like to say that I was dating this man for 5 years. We dated for 2 years and he was hired as the director of the corrections facility I work at, by the then judge. I have worked there almost 10 years, and had no say in his hiring, but was not happy about this. We recently broke up (we were very professional at work, most people do not know we were even together). Since the breakup I have said nothing, but my position has been threatened by him. He has ensured that everyone else is informed of information and ignores me. He has told people I have said horrible things about them, all of which are untrue. Tasks which I was previously assigned are now being assigned to people with less "rank" than I have, and it is done on purpose. I am terrified for my job, and have been documenting everything that is being done to me, in fear it may come to a "head". The judge who is in charge of us now, was not the one who hired him and may not even know we were together. Do I have legal recourse for the things he is doing to me? I come home from work and cry everyday over the treatment I am receiving. It is blatant at work that the "boys" are in and all us females are left out. He has even been telling the lowest ranked male, who is his friend and very young, information about other staff, that should be confidential. I find it all disgusting and terribly sad and would like to know if I should or can fight this.. Please help!!
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- Exboyfriend is my boss, 6/22/02, by Noreen Strong.
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