Re: neighbor harrasment

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You may be spending too much time in your garage looking
through the vents and "observing" your neighbor.

On 2/03/07, Lyndsay W. wrote:
> I live in a Condo complex. For the past 10 years, I have
> had a good relationship with my next door neighbor. This
> all changed this past October-when apparently the husband
> is angry at me for some reason. Passing by him to pick up
> my mail, I was always polite to him, but he would snarl at
> me.
> His anger has manifested into an interesting behavior.
> After he comes back from his morning walks, he leaves a
> balled up piece of trash in front of my garage. Sometimes
> it is a piece of crumpled paper, other times it is an
empty
> cup, napkins, etc.
> How do I know it is him? He thinks he is being sneaky, but
> I can see him through my garage vents-and the view is
clear-
> -I can see out, no one can see in.
> Recently, he was chatting with another neighbor of ours,
> and I was in the garage observing--and they walked toward
> our condos. I had earlier taken his recent balled up wad
of
> paper-and scooted it into the common area for the
gardeners.
> He started yelling about the trash, and how I always put
it
> in the common area--he then proceeded to scoot the trash
> back to the original position he always puts it-in the
> center of my garage door area.
> Then-he proceeded to yell-with the neighbor present-how he
> hates his neighbor-he hates her-he hates her-he hates her.
> Now, I have done no harm to his person, or his property, I
> have tolerated the childish antics on his behalf-but this
> latest twist borders on threatening behavior.
> So---this is what I have-littering, harrasment, and now
> borderline threats.
> In December I notified the HOA of his actions, as well as
> the management company--they are waiting for me for them
to
> proceed with any action.
> Thoughts and/or ideas would be appreciated.