Re: Defimation of Character & Harassment

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On 3/03/08, Bonnie wrote:
> March 3 2008 Monday ~
> Neighborhood harassment, libel,
slander, is increasing
> everywhere !
> I have been the innocent victim of
this and have suffered
> greatly because of it. But I am
not going to stand by and allow
> this to happen. I am putting
together a non-profit organization
> for support for people who are
going through this and similar
> harassment. I will have a website
and meetings that will be
> internet broadcasts with guest
speakers who will "teach" skills
> on how to handle bullies, the laws
that apply to these
> situations, how to obtain the
correct legal help, and emotional
> support projects, along with other
interesting and helpful
> criteria.
> Please let me know if you would be
interested in this source of
> support and information by posting
here.
> For 2 years I have tried
desperately to get county help on
these
> issues, but the county office that
supposedly handles this sort
> of thing has been absolutely no
help, but they have cooperated
> with the people who are causing the
slander and making false
> complaints.
> My husband and I are law abiding
citizens, we are "squeaky
> clean." and quiet people. I've
never even had a speeding
> ticket. But because of horrid
contrivances by a few people,
> they have managed to ruin my good
name in this neighborhood. The
> people who have created this awful
slander have no idea that I
> have the resources that I do to
bring this out in the open. Also
> a few collogues of mine are getting
together do try and put
> together a mini documentary on
these type of situations. Please
> help me by giving some feedback on
your interest in a support
> group of this kind. Many thank and
please don't feel alone,
> there and millions of us going
through situations like this, and
> it's time we got together for
support and to create positive
> change.
> Sincerely,
> Bonnie
>
>
> On 4/19/05, Karen wrote:
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>> Girl I hear ya. Sort of same
story for me. Neighbors just
>> keep on accusing of BS, like they
are out to get me.
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>> On 1/18/05, Tony wrote:
>>> On 2/29/04, Cindy wrote:
>>>> I am a law-abiding homemaker.
Just to let you know, I have
>>>> seen psychologists due to
stress. I have never been
>>>> arrested or labeled a 5150 by
any mental association, only
>>>> by the police, WHY? I get no
answers to my questions.
>>>>
>>>> I suffer from fibromyalgia and
post traumatic stress
>>>> disorder for all my effort of
trying to get to and prove
>>>> the truth. It is hard for me to
function normally on a
>>>> regular basis and I cannot hold
down a steady job. I mainly
>>>> suffer from stress, and preferre
to communication in
>>>> writing than in person, as I am
then accountable for my
>>>> words. I do have a problem when
it comes to being accused
>>>> of things I did not do. I am
tired of being labeled and
>>>> lied about.
>>>>
>>>> I was black balled and lied
about for making verbal
>>>> complaints against employees of
the local drug task force
>>>> and the Sheriff's Dept. Now I'm
making verbal complaints
>>>> about some of the city cops.
Nothing is done because the
>>>> police records indicate I am a
5150.
>>>>
>>>> I WANT MY NAME CLEARED OF THIS
LIE.
>>>>
>>>> The most recent incident we
suffered from was on Friday
>>>> because a neighbor called the
police on me for harassment.
>>>> I'm not sure what the harassment
was and the police won't
>>>> tell me.
>>>> My husband went to the door of a
neighbor because a 17 year
>>>> old continues to zoom through
our neighborhood in a VW,
>>>> revving his motor in front of
our house, blowing out
>>>> choaking white smoke when we are
working in our garage or
>>>> front yard. By the way, the
police did not want to hear our
>>>> side of the story. I remained in
the street, video taping
>>>> the car, but the police were
called on ME only! My husband
>>>> and I are again being told to
move, by the police who
>>>> insinuated that I (not my
husband) am making up things and
>>>> insinuated that I do not get
along with any of my
>>>> neighbors! I live near relatives
and friends now!
>>>>
>>>> We lived in our former
neighborhood for 14 years, 7 with no
>>>> neighbor problems. When I
started a neighborhood watch
>>>> program because of a stalking
involving the neighbors
>>>> living on the street behind our
house, and also turned in a
>>>> drug dealer, our lives were
ruined. I had no idea the
>>>> criminal and his family were
friends and informants of the
>>>> police. We turned over tape
recordings of illegal
>>>> activities to the police, who
did nothing but take stolen
>>>> property from the guy.
>>>> I began being lied about.
Eventually I became known as
>>>> the 'crazy lady' because I kept
documented information and
>>>> files on what was going on. This
was told to me by one of
>>>> the Sheriff's who laughed at me
also (tape recorded this
>>>> conversation also).
>>>> I was lied about by neighbors
who all know or are related
>>>> to, some to cops, and attorneys
in this area.
>>>>
>>>> About 4 years ago, one of the
Lieutenants (tape-recorded
>>>> conversation) from the Sheriff's
Dept., informed me that I
>>>> had been investigated and
cleared of any wrong doing. What
>>>> wrong doing? When I requested a
copy of the report, he then
>>>> told me there had been no
investigation. I know there was,
>>>> as I video taped the officer
going from house to house in
>>>> my former neighborhood.
>>>> I continue to get lied to by the
police. The more questions
>>>> I ask, the more blame is laid on
ME and the more harassment
>>>> I receive from neighbors or
people from this group.
>>>> My questions never get answered.
>>>>
>>>> My husband and I moved from
advice of an attorney. We have
>>>> lived here for 3 years now, but
have been harassed because
>>>> of the lying gossip and
labeling. We I have seen favoritism
>>>> and discrimination from the
police in our area.
>>>>
>>>> We just want to live in peace,
but because I have been
>>>> labeled, I am a target by liars,
relatives, friends and God
>>>> knows who else because of it,
like the neighbors we are
>>>> dealing with now.
>>>>
>>>> This is the pattern: First we
are harassed, either my
>>>> husband and I call the police,
or the police are called on
>>>> ME: Once in this neighborhood
for harassment I wasn't
>>>> doing, twice in the other, for
throwing rocks at a
>>>> neighbors house when I wasn't
home, I was at the
>>>> chiropractor. And once for
calling a neighbor a liar and
>>>> video taping it. No one ever
calls the police on my
>>>> husband. He could get away with
murder and I would get the
>>>> blame!
>>>> Then I am lied about. Then the
police twist the truth and
>>>> make out I am the problem and
the trouble maker. I believe
>>>> this is because of the labelling
that has followed me from
>>>> the previous neighborhood.
>>>> This upsets me. I will admit, I
have problems dealing with
>>>> the blame stress.
>>>>
>>>> The police only give me the run-
around and insinuations
>>>> when I try to get answers to my
questions, and of course, I
>>>> am always blamed by the police
as being the problem. I do
>>>> not respect them, nor have any
fear of them.
>>>> My husband and I once
volunteered for the Sheriff's Dept.
>>>> on the local Search & Rescue Tea
and know how they can
>>>> twist the truth with all out
lies. We quit when I began
>>>> recieving police intimidation
from some of the cops. They
>>>> never bothered my husband but he
quit because of me.
>>>>
>>>> I was afraid to go to the press
in the past out of fear my
>>>> husband may loose his job, the
only means of support we
>>>> have, because of me. I am not in
fear of loosing my life to
>>>> get to the truth.
>>>>
>>>> I do NOT want advice from anyone
in our area. We need to
>>>> speak to someone outside this
area, a neutral party, that
>>>> is not easily influenced by the
status of the 'clan' in our
>>>> area and where money and social
status is not the main
>>>> issue. Someone who is truthful
and can defend my rights
>>>> would be very much appreciated.
>>>>
>>>> If you could PLEASE, please help
us and give us advice on
>>>> what to do or who to seek for
legal advice, it would be
>>>> greatly appreciated.
>>>> We believe there is more going
on here than meets the eye
>>>> and the problems for ME are not
just going to go away as
>>>> long as I have to live in this
town, especially being
>>>> labelled a 5150, and as long as
the police know where I
>>>> live.
>>>>
>>>> I will do whatever it takes to
get to the truth and get my
>>>> name cleared of this lie. I have
met many people here that
>>>> are afraid of the police and
others that have been suffered
>>>> mistreatment. I have the proof.
>>>>
>>>> Thank you.
>>>> Cindy in California