Post: AN EMPLOYEE TRYING TO RUIN ME

Posted by TINA MCALLISTER on 6/15/07
I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHERE TO START. I HAVE BEEN WORKING AT A BUSINESS THAT DOES NOT WANT TO TAKE CARE OF SITUATIONS THAT KEEP OCCURING. I HAVE BEEN EMPLOYEED THERE FOR ALMOST 7 YEARS THIS JULY. I HAVE BEEN IN MANAGEMENT & RUNNING THE PLACE FOR 6 1/2 YEARS. I HAVE WORKED VERY HARD & LONG HOURS TO GET TO WHERE I AM. I HAVE 2 BOSSES ABOVE ME BOTH OWNERS OF THE BUSINESS. I WAS TOLD 5 YEARS AGO THAT I WOULD BE A PERCENTAGE OF OWNERSHIP IN THIS BUSINESS. HAS NOT HAPPENED! I HAVE BEEN TOLD THAT IF IT WASN'T FOR ME THE BUSINESS WOULD NOT BE WHERE IT IS TODAY. BUT, I FEEL LIKE I HAVE BEEN USED & TAKEN ADVANTAGED OF. I WORKED THE FIRST 4 YEARS HARD & LONG HOURS & HARDLY EVER TOOK A LUNCH. MY HUSBAND AT THE TIME HAD GOTTEN SEPERATED IT WAS VERY DIFFICULT TO FUNCTION WITH THE THREATS FROM MY EX. TRYING TO TAKE THE CHILDREN AWAY GOING TO COURT TIME & TIME AGAIN. IN THE MEAN TME I HAD A FEW GIRLS THAT I MANAGED. ENDED UP MAKING UP LIES ABOUT ME TRIED TO GET ME FIRED. MY ONE BOSS WAS BELIEVING THEM WHICH KEPT ME FROM GETTING A RAISE FOR THE LAST ALMOST 3 YEARS. IN THIS TIME I KNEW NO MATTER WHAT I SAID WASN'T GOING TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE BECAUSE MY ONE BOSS IS THE MR. NICE GUY HE HAD TOLD ME HE WANTED ME TO BE THE BAD PERSON & HIM THE GOOD. HE WANTED EVERYONE TO LIKE HIM. THE ONLY PROBLEM WAS WHEN A SITUATION ARAISED HE WOULD MAKE THE SITUATION OK FOR THE PERSON THAT WAS IN THE WRONG OR NOT FOLOWING PROTOCAL HE WOULD SUCK UP TO THEM & TELL THEM IT'S OK. THEN TELL ME A TOTAL DIFFERENT STORY. I FEEL LIKE IF YOUR IN MANAGEMENT IT IS YOUR JOB TO OVER SEE ALL EMPLOYEES & MAKE SURE THEY ARE DOING THERE JOB RIGHT. KEEP FROM HAVING PROBLEMS. WE ALL ARE SUPPOST TO WORK TOGETHER AS A TEAM. I FEEL LIKE HE IS THE ONE THAT TURNS US AGAINST EACH OTHER. CAUSES MORE DRAMA . THE OTHER BOSS WON'T GET INVOLVED IN ANY OF IT. IN FEBUARY I HAD A NERVOUS BREAKDOWN. WENT BACK TO WORK & BASICALLY WAS DEMODED TO NOTHING. HE ENED UP HAVING TO HIRE 5 & GET PEOPLE THERE TO DO ALL OF MY JOBS. NOW I AM BEING AGAIN TALKED ABOUT BEHIND & INFRONT OF ME OF THESE FEW EMPLOYEES THAT TRIED TO GET ME FIRED. I WAS WORKING ON RUNNING THIS COMPANY THAT WAS THE PLAN WITH THE ONE BOSS THAT CALLS HIMSELF MR. NICE GUY. SO HE COULD RETIRE SOON. I HAVE TALKED TO BOTH ABOUT THE REMARKS THAT ARE BEING MADE. I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO DO . OTHER EMPLOYEES ARE NOT HAPPY WITH THE SITUATION. THEY EVEN WENT TO BOTH BOSSES & TOLD THEM THIS IS NOT RIGHT. THIS IS A BUSINESS NOT A PLAYGROUND. SHOULD I CONTACT OUR HR & HAVE THEM THERE TO LET THEM KNOW WHATS BEEN GOING ON? ANY ADVISE WOULD REALLY BE APPRECIATED THANKS
Posts on this thread, including this one
- AN EMPLOYEE TRYING TO RUIN ME, 6/15/07, by TINA MCALLISTER.
- Re: AN EMPLOYEE TRYING TO RUIN ME, 6/16/07, by Anne.
- Re: AN EMPLOYEE TRYING TO RUIN ME, 6/29/07, by The Empathetic One.
- Re: AN EMPLOYEE TRYING TO RUIN ME, 7/22/07, by Roberta Cutting.
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