Re: Mail Tampering by Spouse & Visiting In-Laws

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On 2/08/08, Mike wrote:
> I find myself in a hopeless situation. Maybe you can help
> or guide me.

Mike:

Several people have posted similar problems with mail issues
with ex-spouse/girlfriend, etc.

Best thing is to notify the Post Office to forward your mail
and let them know there is a problem with mishandling of
your mail at your old address.

I spoke to a mail clerk here in my city a few months ago
about the ex-spouse/ex-girlfriend mail issue and he said it
is the most common complaint they get. Unless there is a
significant amount of money or property missing from your
mail they will not be sending the US Marshals to make an
arrest. It is a very low priority issue.

Best advice is to do as I suggested above -- fill out a
change of address card and let the post office know it is
important not to mistakenly deliver your mail to the old
address because of the mishandling issue

> Preamble: The In-Laws have been here from overseas for 8
> months. Terrorizing me, controlling my son, wife, and
> home. To prevent further turmoil in front of my son - I
> have removed myself for about 1 1/2 months to my dads home
> 40 minutes away. The In-Laws are leaving 3/17 after INS
> interview for green cards.
>
> Privacy Issue: While away I emailed my wife and asked her
> to envelope all my mail, and corporation mail (I own an S-
> Corp) and forward to my dad's home. So I can catch up on
> bills and what not until I return. The package was mailed
> overnight 2/7 got today 2/8. Every single letter was
> professionally opened carefully not to destroy the
> contents at one end with what I would guess was a razor or
> cutter of some kind. Mail includes: Personal IRS
> statements, Corp Filings, Bank Statements, even bills, and
> brokerage statements, and some correspondence. Including
> some purchase receipts from corporate vendors. I mean
> everything. Nothing was torn, just painstakingly knifed at
> one end.
>
> My wife and I will likely be getting a divorce soon as I
> return. As this is one of a litany of issues. I need to
> record this violation and prosecute to the fullest extent
> of the law.
>
> What can you tell me? Your thoughts please. We have
> always, in the past respected each others privacy. Not
> going in her purse, she not going in my wallet. Neither
> opening mail addressed to one of use personally. We even
> separate our accounts into his business, and her business.
>
> Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
>
> Kind Regards, and thanks for taking the time to read this
> post.
>
> Mike