Re: Clarification of Harrasment Charges??

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That is your personal experiance
in your state. Not all states are
that cut and dried. No one is
responsable for a deriliction of
duty. That is when it is time to
take these complaints to the
proper complaint board. Namly your
congress/man/woman. Those are the
people who have more to lose by
ignoring you. Unless their
derilects too.

On 5/05/05, Custodial Parent
wrote:
> I pay the same taxes you do
(assuming you do pay taxes) and I
> don't live on welfare. So I
expect my tax dollars to work if
an
> agency is spending them. I
didn't say I couldn't afford a
> private attorney.
>
> What I said was the judicial
system doesn't enforce their own
> orders until the custodial
parent has had to due without
> support for years even if they
go back to court to enforce the
> orders. Why should I pay an
attorney to get nothing
> accomplished any faster or at
all for that matter?
>
> I have already tried that, they
just collected a check because
> you have to "RETAIN" them before
they will go to court and you
> know collection of fees from the
person who is in contempt is a
> joke, doesn't happen so the
attorney gets paid by the person
> filing the contempt motion. It
is a win win situation for the
> attorney only in that case.
>
> We wouldn't need the Child
Support Division of Atty Gen's
> office if the Judges through
dead beat dads in jail and put
> them on probation the FIRST time
they are in contempt now would
> we?
>
> And since you seem to think a
person should be able to know who
> will be a dead beat dad in
advance, could you tell me oh
please
> please enlighten me on just how
that is done. In my experience
> that trait usually doesn't come
out until they are ordered to
> pay child support.
>
> Furthermore my question remains
unanswered!
>
> On 5/05/05, Curmudgeon wrote:
>> You're right. It is a waste of
the taxpayers' money to fund
>> the child support system. Its
a waste of the taxpayers'
>> money to support you and your
children. You chose that
>> deadbeat. You bore his
children. You made life decisions
>> that don't allow you to afford
a private attorney. So,
>> right, why should I have to pay
for courtrooms, judges,
>> court staff, prosecutors,
prosecutors' staff, bailiffs and
>> police officers to make up for
your mistakes?
>>
>> On 5/05/05, Custodial Parent
wrote:
>>> If a custodial parent sends
written correspondance,
>>> subpoenas and publishes a dead
beat father notice to
>>> attempt to collect child
support can that be deemed
>>> harrasment? Especially if that
is all the correspondance
>>> pertains to?
>>>
>>> Now if I can't vent just a
bit, it seems the judicial
>>> system really doesn't enforce
support orders, it just
>> makes
>>> idle threats of this or that
and not until the dead beat
>> is
>>> several years in arrears do
they actually take serious
>>> their own orders issues.
>>>
>>> I am sick and tired of this
dead beat getting away with
>>> neglecting his responsibility
and am willing to risk being
>>> accused of harrasment it is
just ridiculous that I would
>>> have to be placed in that
situation just to have a court
>>> order upheld because the court
system is a joke in that
>>> arena, even the atty gen. that
is a JOKE personified. It
>> is
>>> a waste of the tax payers
money for that office to even
>>> exist the custodial parent
still has to do "ALL" the leg
>>> work, P.I. work ect. That
agency doesn't do anything but
>>> make idle threats until the
child has gone years without
>>> support from the non-custodial
parent.