Re: Employer Mental/Verbal/Physical Abuse

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I'm affraid I'm in the same situation, in this company is
not too many employees, but still I have been told by the
owner that I'm unprofessional, incompetent, that people is
affraid to talk to me because they do not know what my
reaction is going to be, and they manipulate the truth to
make it seem that it was my fault.

I've been in this company for the last 2.5 years and all I
have been receiving from them is abusive conduct. Not
directly but they manipulate situations to turn things
against me and at this point I'm already having problems at
home and I can't even consentrate in my job at church. They
got to the point to use my children to get me in trouble
with the owner. The only reason I dont quit is because I'm
not going to let them get away with it.

I think I'm sick, stressed and I turst no one, I will make
an appointmnt to the doctor this week because I am having
sympthoms that seem to be related to stress. Headaches,
pain in my lower back, a lot of pain in my overies and i can
go on and on.

If you can help me to get justice, If they answered to you
please contact me.

On 2/14/05, Ms. TM wrote:
> I have been with the same company for over 5 years, during
> this time I have been verbally, mentally and physically
> abused by my employer(s). As of this past Friday - Feb.
> 11th, I have been told (again, 3rd time or more)that I am
> HATED by every employee in my company, those are the words
> used by the owners. That is why I was lowered in my
> position to receptionist instead of being secretary (I was
> a secretary from 1999-2003). I have been told I am
useless,
> stupid, lazy, I am told to F*&*^ find things, it goes on.
> This is a highly family run company, and really have no
one
> to speak with about the abuse. I was told if I don't like
> the F*^^&37; job to quit, sorry I am not stupping to that
> level.
>
> I have been looking for new work for over a year, and
> nothing has taken shape, I have had to lie about being
sick
> so I can go to an interview or for a test. I have been
told
> if caught looking for new work, I would be fired.
>
> I really do not like to associate with my co-workers, I
> can't trust them, after all I am hated by them. I am
scared
> to say anything nice, not knowing if it would be ran to
the
> boss as sarcasim. I was told if they heard one thing about
> me when they return from their trip on Feb, 22nd I would
be
> fired.
>
> I am currently working on my degree in Criminal Justice
and
> graduating next year, I work another job PT to keep up
with
> bills and school expenditures. Amazingly I have been
> working 60 to 66 hours a week for 6 months and I am still
> sane. I have learned to manage my stress very well, so
this
> is not to affect the job I am at presently, even though my
> employer keeps throwing it in my face every chance they
> get, I believe they are jealous that I am well organized
> and multi-task all that I do. When I start to feel out of
> it, I take a break for day to reorganize myself.
>
> Is there a possible Defimation of Character Law Suit with
> this? I am a very nice person, I do my work, I keep to
> myself these days, on time everyday.
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