Re: CIVIL SUIT AGAINST EX-BOYFRIEND

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On 1/11/06, Lindsey wrote:
> All opinions welcome? great here I come:
>
> First yes you do need something to prove to the Judge that you
> lend him the money to spend on what a car? A promisory note, a
> letter, just about anything
>
> You need to prepare a very strong case against him
>
> Because of the ammount being so small, Small Claims is your best
> choice
>
> I will go for the kill and win as revenge to this 'user' if it
> was my boyfriend, but than again I will never 'lend' much less
> give money to any man, because I won't date a poor soul, I fall
> in love with their assets first, my standards are very high and
> yours should be too, and I am serious about this, as far as
> gifts, if the relationship is very serious, than he will get a
> gift for his b-day, christmas, valentine's (but I make sure he
> is going to give me a gift first, before I even give it to him)
> I know what a 'b' right?
>
> When you don't give anything to them, they give you believe me,
> otherwise they just used you
>
> Don't cater to your next boyfriends every need, instead let him
> do it himself, let him become responsible, put him on a leash or
> put your feet down and tell him when he can breath ! ...LOL
>
> By 'lending' or giving him money regardless of the situation,
> you are showing him that you are madly in love and will do
> anything for him
>
> This your first class for the next boyfriend
>
> Good luck I hope you make the right decision on this incident in
> your life
>
> I bet lots of men are going to love this post !
>
> Sincerely,
>
> Lindsey
>

It is just sad to read that you would be biased about the
situation. It seems like you are still bitter of your former
relationships. If you do the same and treat and use men, then you
are not any better than those who hurt you... And the cycle goes
on.

The reason why i am at this forum is i am looking for answers
regarding my ex using me.

It's not only men who do that, even women like you.

JMHO
nick