Posted by Shirin on 2/11/08

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I am a US Citizen. My 17 year old daughter, adopted out
of El Salvador and also a US Citizen, is strongly
attracted to a 21 year old illegal immigrant from
Honduras. He has perhaps a fifth grade level of
education, and barely speaks English. This is the second
time he has entered the country, after having been
deported once, so this is felony reentry. Well, my kid is
forever trying to sneak out to sleep with him etc. I
initially spoke with the young man, and told him that I
wished to have a year to observe his character, and if he
proved to be of decent character I would not oppose the
match. Indeed, I was prepared to act as his patron, and
get him trained in some sort of marketable field, eg
electrician, HVAC technician etc. if he met the following
conditions; (1) He had to stop sleeping with the girl,
although I permitted unsupervised dates. (2) He had to
attend Spanish mass at the local Catholic church. (3) He
had to work on his GED, and I agreed to provide him with
tuition. Well, he did none of the above, and he is
sleeping around with multiple girls; my daughter knows
this, and STILL the little fool is infatuated with him.
Don't ask me why; he's not that good looking. I have
spoken to him directly telling him not to call; I have
spoken to members of his community having them pass on the
message; I have attempted to get the police to go pick him
up (no luck); and I have spoken to his landlord
threatening legal action if he continues to rent to this
guy. (The landlord just laughed; it was the funniest
thing he had heard in a while.) I have alarms on every
door and window in the house so I know if the kid is
slithering out, I have thrust her into two college courses
and forbidden her to have a job in order to fill up her
time and deprive her of spare cash to assist her in these
escapedes; I have taken away her license, and I have moved
her college funds into a vehicle that she will not be able
to access until she is 30 (I can pay for her college out
of other funds.) What more can I do to get rid of this
pestilential boyfriend?

Daughter's undesirable boyfriend is an illegal, 2/11/08, by Shirin.

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