Posted by Jackie Adams Sr on 5/17/08

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I was envolved in a year long relationship with a violent
woman. She got pregnant because she wasn`t going to let me
leave her. She is a wonderful person on meds but, her
grandmother ALWAYS convinces her that her prescribed meds
are dangerous. She and I seen the same psychiatrist until
her family convinced her it was wasting her time. I was
the one going through hell because of this. I left her
January 24, 2008 and she started lying about me attacking
her(choking to be exact). The last night we were together
she got the most vviolent ever. She clawed me, punched me,
slapped me, threw heavy objects at me, threatened my life
if I left or called the police, and hit me 3 times on the
back of my head with a hammer handle. She was on her way
to jail again until her grandmother showed up. She has
pull in the police department, sheriff`s department,
courts and with city hall. After her arrival, the officer
dropped all knowledge of my report and let her leave with
her grandmother. Before they left she called the officer
downstairs and that`s when the lies began. She told him
that I grabbed her by the throat, started choking her and
that was why I was beat on and clawed up. She told him
that she did it fighting me off of her. He examined her
thoroughly inn bright light with his flashlight too and
told her she was flat out lying! That`s when he got pissed
and told her to go immediately or go to jail. She asked
for some things in which he replied that she had exactly 5
minutes and no more. He added that if she was even in the
stairwell when the 5 minutes was up, she was defintely
going to jail. I had to go to the ER the next morning
because I was having severe blurred vision, a severe head
ache, loss of balance, forgetfulness, etc. because she
tried to crack my skull with that hammer handle.
Afterwards, I went to the police station with the ER
report to have her either arrested or put in a psyche
hospital but, was met with hostility. I was told that
because I would press charges the night before that they
weren`t going to do anything about it. I had tried to have
her arrested but the grandmother incident. So, I went to
the sheriff`s department for some justice and was arrested
for threatening an officer. This did not happen! I was
explaining the situation when the sheriff came rushing
into the lobby and pratically threw me to the ground. For
no other reason than the fact that her grandmother worked
there before and apparently made a phone call to her old
boss about me. Anyway, I was only locked up for a few
hours and then told to NOT show my face there again or the
next time they might forget about me being in their jail.
Since all of this my ex has slandered me all over the
town, her family has done the same thing, her grandfather
found out that I hadn`t registered my pick up yet or
transferred the title over and filed for a lost title, got
it and has been trying to take MY pick up away from me
ever since. No! the law enforcement will not here my side
or abide by the law and arrest him for defrauding the
state and me by lying to get a title. I haven`t seen my
son yet. He was born January 26, 2008 and I don`t know
what he looks like. They are constantly having people call
and leave threatening messages on their machine. The
caller ID always conveniently shows an unknown caller. I
haven`t been back to that town since I left her because I
was warned that if I was seen by certain officers I would
be arrested for felony trespassing on their property
whether I was there or not. I just want justice. I want
them to pay! I have been bleeding internally since all of
this has started and may be hospitalized June 19, 2008 if
thiings don`t start to improve with my health. I have lost
over 60 pounds in less than 4 months because of all of the
stress and worry caused from them and their lies. I want
to be able to see my son as well as my family. I am going
to loose my truck, over $1,500.00 worth of my things, my
son, my sanity, my health, all because of vengful people
taking revenge out on me for leaving my wife. I am not a
violent person, I did not choke her, I have never touched
her no matter what she did to me, I have been made out to
be a evil physically abusive monster(it was seriously the
other way around), have never been arrested for family
violence or spousal abuse(she has), I have never been made
to leave our house because of the fighting(she has), I am
at the end of my life line here. No matter what I do, try
to help out with getting the baby things or sending her
money for him, they always return to sender or send it
back to me. What do I do? How do I go about doing what
needs to be done? Can I file on them in justice court? I
just want fairness and, well honestly, a lot of cash
payback. They have cost me almost 4 months of my son`s
life from all of this and have you any precept to what
it`s like to not know, see, hold, feed, play with, watch
him sleep or even be able to sleep with your own child
because revenge is top of the list? I have already lost a
sson to murder July 5, 2003 and this is just like that all
over again. I tried legal aid but, her grandmother had her
apply for it, even though she already has an attorney, to
keep me from being to get assisstance. I am on disability
and had everthing worked out to get retrained and back to
making real money when I had to hide my truck. Now I can`t
get to school or get a job because I can`t use my own
damned vehicle. Please help me with any and all you can.
Thank you, Jackie Adams Sr.

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