Re: friend in need of some advice

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THE GIRL IS 21 AND HE IS 38. IM ALSO SORRY I FORGOT TO SAY THAT I
LIVE IN CANADA SO IM NOT SURE IF THE SYETEM IS THE SAME HERE. THE
GUY IS A GOOD FRIEND OF MINE BUT YOU GUYS HAVE MADE ME WONDER
ABOUT HIM. LOL. HIS WIFE THAT HE IS SEPERATED FROM IS ACTUALLY
REALLY CRAZY.THE BRAINS IN HIS PANTS COST HIM ALOT OF MONEY AND
NOW HE SEES WHAT SHE IS LIKE.

On 2/24/06, v wrote:
> Oh my goodness! Hey Lindsey! Have you ever dated a really nice
> old senile gent, who left his brains in your pants?! LOL
>
>
> On 2/23/06, Lindsey wrote:
>> Yes I agree with Bob on everything he posted here (no wonder I
>> admire him also)
>>
>> If he is scared that she may charge him with stachatory rape,
>> maybe that's what he did, besides seducing a minor into a
>> illegal relationship with a married man
>>
>> What a catch !! is right, what a prize is right also, or
>> should we say: what a seducer liar!!?
>>
>> Hmmm wonder how many other innocent minors he forced himself
>> to, with lies and false promises
>>
>> I really hope she charges him with stachatory rape, because
>> that's what it is, no wonder he is 'afraid', if he was
>> innocent and didn't commit such crime, he will be at peace but
>> he is not
>>
>> There is no doubt in my mind that SOME (or most men...lmao)
>> have their brains under their pants! :)
>>
>> Just my 0.2 Cents
>>
>> Lindsey
>>
>>
>> On 2/23/06, Bob R/CA wrote:
>>> On 2/23/06, linzi wrote:
>>>> i have a friend who is dating a much younger girl(legal
>>>> age) and wants to break it off. he is scared that she will
>>>> charge him with stachatory rape. and they have been
>>>> together for a year. so they are common law. can she take
>>>> him to court and get half of everything he has? also he is
>>>> still married going through a seperation
>>>
>>> I'm confused - first you say she is "legal" then you say he
>>> fears being charged with statutory rape. Either she is (and
>>> was) over the age of consent, or not.
>>>
>>> Victims don't charge people with crimes - only the state
>>> (prosecutor) can do that. Assuming she was under the age of
>>> consent when the relationship started, and other elements of
>>> the crime were satisfied (e.g. he was over a certain age -
>>> elements vary by state) then she can make a complaint to the
>>> police, and the D.A. can decide if he wants to follow up on
>>> it. You didn't mention the state involved or their ages, so
>>> I can't point you to the statute for that state.
>>>
>>> As far as common law marriage, most people have little
>>> understanding of the reality. Common law marriage only
>>> exists in a handful of states, and each have their own
>>> requirements - but none of them revolve around simply living
>>> together for a certain length of time. In every instance,
>>> the couple needs to hold themselves out as married. And
>>> since you openly stated he is already married, I'm assuming
>>> she knows this and realizes she therefore cannot be and is
>> not
>>> married to him. E.g., no common law marriage.
>>>
>>> On the other hand, some states do recognize a limited right
>>> of recovery known as "palimony," but I'm not aware of any
>>> instances where a settement was established for a couple
>>> living together for only a year.
>>>
>>> For what it's worth, he doesn't sound like anyone's hero.
>>> he has a wife already and is having sex and living with
>>> another minor (presumably). The only reason he is still
>>> involved with the girl is because he's afraid of legal or
>>> economic consequences. What a catch!