Re: RE; fasle accusation of child sexual abuse

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On 4/24/06, M'sta Mikey wrote:
> On 4/23/06, Lillian wrote:
>> My ex-son-in-law has said I sexually abuse a granddaughter
>> She was jusmping on bed and I was standing by the bedside
>> so she wouldn't fall doing motor boat with my mouth and as
>> she came down, she came froward and our tongues touched.
>> It took him 5 years to tell anyone and now seven more
>> yearshave passed and he won't report me to CPS. So I can
>> be cleared. I tryed to report myself and CPS laughed at
>> me. I want to sue for deformation of charater any help or
>> thoughts?
>> I can't stop crying. I even had a lie detector test last
>> year and it cleared me.
>
> What did CPS determined? Were charges file? Were you
> convicted of abuse? Is there a police record? Yes, you can
> sue but what do you stand to gain - peace of mind? Even if
> you sued and won, what would you be asking for?
>
> Bottom line is this: You must *prove* that he slandered you;
> witnesses subpeoned, affidavits filed, etc. You have an
> uphill battle to fight and if you do plan to go ahead with
> the charges, you need to consult with an attorney. He/she
> will tell you if you have a case or not.
>
> Unfortunately, slander (spoken word) suits are extremely
hard
> to prove and little, if any, $$$ is ever awarded.

They never called CPs, no police report, no charges filed. He
waited 5 years to tell someone. I believe he never reported
to CPS because he new they would clear me and than, he
couldn't hold over my head. To keep me from seeing
granddaughers.

There is a court record of my ex-daugher-in-law seeing Mr. S
told her I sexually abused the child, on such'n'such a date.
At a meeting with my minister and Mr. S he said I couldn't not
tongue kiss her - I was fabergasted and immediately said I
never did such a thing. My mother was at that meeting and so
was my daughter, Mr S's ex-wife. So I have witnesses and
court records.

I don't care about money from suit I would give to lawyer and
donate to a abuse shelter. I want my name cleared!!

I DON'T WANT MY GRANDDAUGHTERS WHEN THEY ARE BIG TO ASK WHY
COULDN'T WE SEE OUR "MIMI" AND BE TOLD I ABUSED ONE OF THEM.
It makes me sick to my stomach.