Re: Child custody

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On 7/26/07, M'sta Mikey wrote:
> On 7/25/07, Charla Kulikowski wrote:
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> What do you mean by 'trying to server papers'? If he has
> your address then that's where they should be delivered. Has
> he sent them to your address? Have you refused to accept
> delivery?
>
> If you refuse to be served then yes, he can proceed without
> you. If he hasn't sent the papers to you then he can attempt
> to proceed but it won't get him very far. HE needs proof
> that he attempted to serve you and without that proof...

He called my mother and told her that the police had gone out
to serve them, but he says that the man who came to the door
said he didn't know who I was... My mother told him there is
no man living at our address, that the officer must have gone
to the wrong address, and to have them come out again. I even
offered to go the police station and pick them up! I want
these papers to know what is going on. He won't let me talk to
my son or visit with him. He didn't mail anything, he had a
police officer serve them. He won't allow me visitation, yet
he is suing me for child support. My mother even called (since
they won't pick up the phone if I call), and told my ex that I
would be at home all day on Tuesdays, but they have not
attempted to serve them again. I never refused any papers, and
I won't refuse them.