Re: AN EMPLOYEE TRYING TO RUIN ME

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I would have H/R come and handle it. If you have already
spoken to your boss and nothing has come of it, then nothing
ever will. That is why H/R was created-someone on neutral
ground.

-good luck!

On 6/15/07, TINA MCALLISTER wrote:
> I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHERE TO START. I HAVE BEEN WORKING AT A
> BUSINESS THAT DOES NOT WANT TO TAKE CARE OF SITUATIONS THAT
> KEEP OCCURING. I HAVE BEEN EMPLOYEED THERE FOR ALMOST 7
> YEARS THIS JULY. I HAVE BEEN IN MANAGEMENT & RUNNING THE
> PLACE FOR 6 1/2 YEARS. I HAVE WORKED VERY HARD & LONG HOURS
> TO GET TO WHERE I AM. I HAVE 2 BOSSES ABOVE ME BOTH OWNERS
> OF THE BUSINESS. I WAS TOLD 5 YEARS AGO THAT I WOULD BE A
> PERCENTAGE OF OWNERSHIP IN THIS BUSINESS. HAS NOT HAPPENED!
> I HAVE BEEN TOLD THAT IF IT WASN'T FOR ME THE BUSINESS
> WOULD NOT BE WHERE IT IS TODAY. BUT, I FEEL LIKE I HAVE
> BEEN USED & TAKEN ADVANTAGED OF. I WORKED THE FIRST 4 YEARS
> HARD & LONG HOURS & HARDLY EVER TOOK A LUNCH. MY HUSBAND AT
> THE TIME HAD GOTTEN SEPERATED IT WAS VERY DIFFICULT TO
> FUNCTION WITH THE THREATS FROM MY EX. TRYING TO TAKE THE
> CHILDREN AWAY GOING TO COURT TIME & TIME AGAIN. IN THE MEAN
> TME I HAD A FEW GIRLS THAT I MANAGED. ENDED UP MAKING UP
> LIES ABOUT ME TRIED TO GET ME FIRED. MY ONE BOSS WAS
> BELIEVING THEM WHICH KEPT ME FROM GETTING A RAISE FOR THE
> LAST ALMOST 3 YEARS. IN THIS TIME I KNEW NO MATTER WHAT I
> SAID WASN'T GOING TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE BECAUSE MY ONE BOSS
> IS THE MR. NICE GUY HE HAD TOLD ME HE WANTED ME TO BE THE
> BAD PERSON & HIM THE GOOD. HE WANTED EVERYONE TO LIKE HIM.
> THE ONLY PROBLEM WAS WHEN A SITUATION ARAISED HE WOULD MAKE
> THE SITUATION OK FOR THE PERSON THAT WAS IN THE WRONG OR
> NOT FOLOWING PROTOCAL HE WOULD SUCK UP TO THEM & TELL THEM
> IT'S OK. THEN TELL ME A TOTAL DIFFERENT STORY. I FEEL LIKE
> IF YOUR IN MANAGEMENT IT IS YOUR JOB TO OVER SEE ALL
> EMPLOYEES & MAKE SURE THEY ARE DOING THERE JOB RIGHT. KEEP
> FROM HAVING PROBLEMS. WE ALL ARE SUPPOST TO WORK TOGETHER
> AS A TEAM. I FEEL LIKE HE IS THE ONE THAT TURNS US AGAINST
> EACH OTHER. CAUSES MORE DRAMA . THE OTHER BOSS WON'T GET
> INVOLVED IN ANY OF IT. IN FEBUARY I HAD A NERVOUS
> BREAKDOWN. WENT BACK TO WORK & BASICALLY WAS DEMODED TO
> NOTHING. HE ENED UP HAVING TO HIRE 5 & GET PEOPLE THERE TO
> DO ALL OF MY JOBS. NOW I AM BEING AGAIN TALKED ABOUT BEHIND
> & INFRONT OF ME OF THESE FEW EMPLOYEES THAT TRIED TO GET ME
> FIRED. I WAS WORKING ON RUNNING THIS COMPANY THAT WAS THE
> PLAN WITH THE ONE BOSS THAT CALLS HIMSELF MR. NICE GUY. SO
> HE COULD RETIRE SOON. I HAVE TALKED TO BOTH ABOUT THE
> REMARKS THAT ARE BEING MADE. I REALLY DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE
> TO DO . OTHER EMPLOYEES ARE NOT HAPPY WITH THE SITUATION.
> THEY EVEN WENT TO BOTH BOSSES & TOLD THEM THIS IS NOT
> RIGHT. THIS IS A BUSINESS NOT A PLAYGROUND. SHOULD I
> CONTACT OUR HR & HAVE THEM THERE TO LET THEM KNOW WHATS
> BEEN GOING ON? ANY ADVISE WOULD REALLY BE APPRECIATED
> THANKS