Re: CIVIL SUIT AGAINST EX-BOYFRIEND

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All opinions welcome? great here I come:

First yes you do need something to prove to the Judge that you
lend him the money to spend on what a car? A promisory note, a
letter, just about anything

You need to prepare a very strong case against him

Because of the ammount being so small, Small Claims is your best
choice

I will go for the kill and win as revenge to this 'user' if it
was my boyfriend, but than again I will never 'lend' much less
give money to any man, because I won't date a poor soul, I fall
in love with their assets first, my standards are very high and
yours should be too, and I am serious about this, as far as
gifts, if the relationship is very serious, than he will get a
gift for his b-day, christmas, valentine's (but I make sure he
is going to give me a gift first, before I even give it to him)
I know what a 'b' right?

When you don't give anything to them, they give you believe me,
otherwise they just used you

Don't cater to your next boyfriends every need, instead let him
do it himself, let him become responsible, put him on a leash or
put your feet down and tell him when he can breath ! ...LOL

By 'lending' or giving him money regardless of the situation,
you are showing him that you are madly in love and will do
anything for him

This your first class for the next boyfriend

Good luck I hope you make the right decision on this incident in
your life

I bet lots of men are going to love this post !

Sincerely,

Lindsey

On 1/11/06, NICOLE wrote:
> On 1/11/06, M'sta Mikey wrote:
>> On 1/11/06, NICOLE wrote:
>>> I would like to know if I can still sue my ex for money I
>>> lent him back in 1999. If I can still sue him, how do I
>>> go about filing a claim. I reside in NJ. All suggestions
>>> are welcome.
>>>
>>>
>>> Thanks
>>
>> Depending on the amount of money, you may be able to take
>> this to small claims court. But a few questions:
>>
>> Do you have a signed contract/Promissory note? If not, then
>> it's your word against his and you have an uphill battle -
>> the burden of proof is on you to show it was a loan as
>> opposed to a gift, or that the money was even lent.
>>
>> What did you wait so long?
>
>
> No I do not have a signed agreement. I thought I was in love
> and since he
> said he would pay me back I agreed to not have one.
> I should have been did this but I was "BLINDED BY LOVE". I now
> realize what
> a jerk he is. The amount is $597...is it worth taking it to
> court or
> should I take my losses.
>