Re: DYFS

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On 6/19/07, naquawn wrote:
> On 6/05/07, mom wrote:
>> On 4/21/07, DYFS wrote:
>>> Here is a suggestion for all you degenerate, drug using,
>>> scum of the earth, illiterate morons. How about you buy
>>> yourself "Hooked on Phonics", so poeple can at least
>>> understand the garbage you're writing about. Put the
>>> joint down for one minute and think about what you have
>>> done to your children. DYFS might not be the best agency
>>> in the world, but they can't take a child unless the
>>> parents are drug users, criminals, or just completely
>>> unfit to raise a child.
>>> "Hooked on phonics worked for me!"
>>
>>
>> First I am not a caseworker. I have seen both sides of dyfs.
>> i am a foster parent. i too have been falsley accused by
>> caseworkers and bio-parents upset with the system that took
>> their children. some parents deserved to have their children
>> taken but, not all of them placed in my home in the last
>> 13yrs deserved to be taken. many caseworkers are too "green"
>> and have no idea what it is to raise children. not all
>> parents are horrible people that abuse drugs/alcohol and
>> beat their children. dyfs would like for the general public
>> to believe this though. because i speak for the children
>> dyfs does not like me much they prefer that foster parents
>> keep their mouth shut and accept all they say as the truth.
>> dyfs especially hates if you go to court and find out for
>> yourself what is going on in a case. i used to sit back and
>> believe what i was told until i caught a woker in a lie and
>> that is when dyfs retalitated against me. i know of one case
>> that dyfs had the children placed in foster homes before
>> they even came out to do their so called "investigation" all
>> based on false allegations by a person that was mad at the
>> parents. this is the truth. so you had better get your head
>> out of the sand and believe what some of these people are
>> blogging because it is the truth. dyfs workers are taught
>> how to lie and they can do it with a straight face.
>> caseworkers will make up all kinds of allegations. i have
>> closed my home after the last allegations were made and
>> caused my children to be afraid to come from school for fear
>> that a dyfs worker was going to be their to take them. dyfs
>> claims that you have to let them question your children.
>> first you do not have to let them into your home and second
>> you are allowed to have a third person present such as a
>> police officer or other individual to keep dyfs from asking
>> leading questions or making up lies. Let me just end with
>> one more thing for you to think about: dyfs workers are
>> morons each and every one of them. nothing has gotten better
>> in the division and instead of hiring snot nosed little kids
>> to do an adults' job they should have to have at least one
>> child that they are raising from birth to adult. then let
>> them cast the stones to ruin homes.
> before you judge remember god dont like ugly! i am a innocent
> mother dont use any drugs and dont have a criminal conviction!
> so get out of lah lah land! my son was discharged with a
> deadly infection that the hospital decided that if they make
> it look like i almost killed him they wouldnt get a law suit
> but i will sue dyfs and i will sue that hospital as well and
> remember me because there are innocent parents out there!you
> will read about my law suit in the papers

anna marks response....
7-1-08
DYFS HAS NO CLUE

I am a parent who had dyfs called on me by my fiances ex wife. i
have a full time job, go to college and raise my two girls on my
own. I am a caring mother involved in every aspect of my
childrens lives. From what i have seen, DYFS workers
need "hooked on phonics". The man who initially came to my house
could hardly speak english and made a judgement of me after
meeting me for 15 minutes. he felt I had neglected my children
by what the person who called had said about me. i explained
that I know who it was that called and his story changed. Caught
in a lie. We'll after he left I heard from someone 3 weeks
later. This man who is on my case didn't even show up for his
June visit yet. i haven't heard from him in over a month. He
came by in the middle of may, stayed for 10 minutes and left. he
was also 20 minutes late for his appointment. That is
unaaceptible to me. if i did neglect my children, what was that
man going to do. He had no interest in talking to my kids and
spent little time with me. i have nothing to hide. It just seems
I am just another case to him. i have a lawyer on it right now.
It seems everything will be dropped. If DYFS had anything on me
they should follow up.
Now I understand how there are children dying even though DYFS
is in their lives. DYFS doesn't give crap. Another case, more
pay. this state needs to take a good look at who it has working
for it. (NJ) To me it is a bunch of under educated idiots who
have no clue.... Oh remember, IT IS A STATE JOB.....
Qualifacations---- lazy......