Re: Child Support Enforcement is a Violation of Men's Rights

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On 7/27/02, Dana wrote:
> On 7/10/02, susie wrote:
>> Wow! You have alot to say, I understand where your going with
>> this, I personally believe abortion is nothing short of
>> murder, however, where you say after birth there are no
>> legal/human ties to the child to warrant child support
>> enforcement, NO, I don't agree. If you get someone pregnant
>> and they decide that they believe in having it and do so, SHE
>> SHOULD HAVE THE RIGHT TO ENFORCE SUPPORT. In this case, you
>> do not have the right to contest if you are indeed the
>> father. I have known men who run and hide and spend most of
>> thier life avoiding payment, and I have known women who
>> voluntarily relinquished the right to collect. I guess if
>> you find yourself in this situation, you better find out
>> before hand if she is the independent type, or the type who
>> will hunt you down.
> I liked this response because basically the man first posting
> wi saying "its not my body why should I support it."That is
> the most dead beat dad thing I have ever heard.Just because the
> relationship didn't work out doesn't mean you have to shuck
> off the moral responsibility of shouldering some of the expense
> of raising your innocent offspring.ANd thats what a child is
> in the case of a marital breakup.The innocent bystander that
> gets to feel the hurt and see and hear the misery.I hate divorce
> been there done that.In fact i was the one who quit trying to
> track down my sons dad.He would eithr quit a job or work for
> cash rather than help support his son.He chose to live a
> different life not us.We were the victims of selfishness
> and I am proud to say that I have raised a very outstanding
> youngman who has made ma a very proud parent>I also got the
> benefit of his growing up,graduation,going into the military,
> marriage and now soon the birth of his first child.I am glad
> I didn't chose to shuck my responsibilities.