Re: Child Support Enforcement is a Violation of Men's Rights
Posted by CAROLE l. kOFAHL, chantz31@hotmail.com, on 9/17/02
On 9/09/02, Mike wrote: > To the authors of these notations: > Men do have a right to consent according to the Constitution. > If a man has accepted his role as a father then yes he is bound > to that privledge (commonly irresponsibly uttered as > responsibility thanks to child support and sole custody awards). > If a man simply had sexual intercourse with a woman she > does not have the right to decide if he will become responsible > for that child if she chooses to conceive. The 14th amendment > guarantees equal protection of laws. Also equal liberties > (privileges and immunities) found under article 4, section 2, > and second sentence. > This brings to light the matter of child support... > Since parenting is an equal right under the Constitution how can > a woman or man assume they can seek sole custody? If both > parents are congruent Citizens the Constitution does not support > and flatly denies such an award of privilege. 14th amendment, > section 1. > This would indicate that parents must equally divide the > parenting role... like it or not that is the only fair way to > handle it. This is also in "the Childs best interest" the child > will see unity and not be divided from one parent or the other. > Your identification of a deadbeat dad... Stop! Listen to > what you just said and think about the current conditions. Turn > them 180 degrees. You cannot walk in a mans shoes. A man is > flatly denied custody and is slated to become an involuntary > servant. Is this what he agreed to? No it isn't, he agreed to be > a father and now you have allowed the courts to strip him of his > equal right. How would you feel if this happened to you... you > would be devastated? Don't believe for one second that a man > does not have feelings. Men do have feelings but they are not by > custom allowed to show them. This is precisely why many men act > as they do. For men who do not act this way... good for you but > don’t judge another guy because your situation may have differed > greatly and perhaps you didn’t give a rats about your > relationship. You had better wizen up, you are a victim also and > your life is drastically affected by legislation in this issue > regardless of your actions. Your child is being subjected to the > nuance of your unworthy role. Think about that impact and how > your Childs views will be forged. So... until men’s rights are > honored equally regarding this issue don't call another father a > dead beat dad when he has been literally raped of his most > sacred role in life! You cannot assume a father is a "dead beat" > until he has been afforded equal rights and has then dishonored > his role as a father. Until then… hold your judgment for the > creator’s courtroom. > Many of you are quick to Judge but you never think through > the whole issue before you speak. Think about that... you’re > getting screwed any way you cut it. As women you think you are > getting a good deal, your really getting the raw end of the > stick, so is the child and so is the father. You all loose. > Unless the legislation honors equality and equal rights we as a > nation all lose. Some how some way we all get shafted with the > current legislation. > I took the liberty to expound upon this topic much deeper. > Look uner the other Mikes entry. MIKE I DO AGREE WITH YOU TRY THIS I AM 52 YEARS OLD AND I HAVE TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT AND I WAS NOT PAYING FAST ENOUGH SO THEY ARE TAKING IT OUT OF MY SOC.SEC.DISABLITY CHECK EVRY MONTH AND ITS REALLY HARD TO LIVE SINCE I AM A GRANDMOTHER TO ALL OF MY CHILDERNS CHIDERN AND MY EX HAS HIS ADULT TOYS NEW AND OLD CARS CAMPERS GOES ON CRUSIES DO YOU THINK I GOT FEELINGS I DO HE IS NOW TRYING TO GET MONEY FROM MY MOTHERS ESTATE WHICH DIED ON 9/9/01 JUST BEFORE THE TRADE CENTER 9.11 SO HE HAS STOPPED THE ESTATEFOR BEING FINALIZED.I COULD GO ON E-MAIL ME AND I WILL TELL YOU MORE LIKE MY CHILDERN'S AGES ARE 32,30,28 TRY THAT ONE FOR SIZE THERE ARE ALOT OF WOMEN OUT THERE PAYING ALSO.
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- Child Support Enforcement is a Violation of Men's Rights!, 3/27/02, by Darin.
- Re: Child Support Enforcement is a Violation of Men's Rights, 3/30/02, by Amazed.
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- Re: Child Support Enforcement is a Violation of Men's Rights, 9/09/02, by Mike.
- Re: Child Support Enforcement is a Violation of Men's Rights, 9/09/02, by Mike.
- Re: Child Support Enforcement is a Violation of Men's Rights, 9/17/02, by CAROLE l. kOFAHL.
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