Re: unwed mothers rights vs. fathers

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On 2/15/08, sharwinston wrote:
> Do about what?
> What's your issue with all of this?
> If you want nothing to do with the alleged biodad and you want him to
> have no contact with your child, then do nothing.
>
> On 2/15/08, Ashley wrote:
>> I found out I was Pregnant at 27 weeks due to a huge mistake by my
>> doctor. NO time to plan and that was very stressful much less the fact
>> my whole life changed in one doc appt. I had to think about who was
>> the father of my son and how to explain this to him. I had 2 men to
>> test. The first was not a match, the second was positive and I didn't
>> want him to have anything to do with my son. I decided not to tell
>> him, and I now I fear that I will get into trouble. I just wanted what
>> is best for my son. This man has 3 children and I have never seen him
>> take care of them. And I have just learned that he has another on the
>> way. I have excepted the fact that I am taking full responsibility for
>> my son and don't want to have to face any problems, but I need advice
>> on what to do. I am afraid to tell anyone because I don't want to mess
>> up any relationship he has with his kids, Or do I want to confront him
>> about my son, I don't feel he has the time or money to support my
>> child, nor do I need or want any help. What should I do? Please any
>> advice will do!