Re: Non supporting biodad rights

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The laws in this country requires all parents to support their
children -- court order or not. If he's not paying child support,
then go to your local Child Support Enforcement Agency and they
should help you get a court order & enforce it. However, you are
reminded that he will likely get visitation unless health/safety
issues are involved.

I don't think anything about the soaked clothes & rice since I
wasn't there & didn't see how it happened and with kids, there's no
telling how it happened.

On 12/29/09, concernmommy wrote:
> He is obligated to to pay child support even if there's not a
> court order? He's not helping me at all. He doesnt care too much
> for my little one. He sais he was stopping by for xmas day and he
> diidnt showed up,not even a phone call to ask about his son. To be
> honest i dont trust him very much when he comes and pick up my
> son.Last time he had him he brought him back with all his clothes
> soaked,my little guy was in his car seat with a cup full of ice
> while his dad was on his way to bring him back home. What do u
> think about that?
>
> On 12/28/09, sharwinston wrote:
>> Generally, when biodad signs the birth certificate, he has full
>> rights to his child. In other words, both mom and dad have
>> equal rights. No court order is required. Unless there is a
>> health/safety issue, biodad has visitation rights and the
>> obligation to pay child support.
>>
>> On 12/28/09, concernmommy wrote:
>>> On 12/25/09, sharwinston wrote:
>>> Thanks for ur respond...Biodad has only established paternity
>>> by signing his birth certificate other than nothing else has
>>> been done,there's no court order,we never got married.I just
>>> want to know exactly what his rights are.
>>>
>>>> The answers depend on whether or not the biodad has
>>>> established his paternal rights under the laws of your state
>>>> (i.e. were you married to biodad when the child was
>>>> conceived/born; did biodad sign the birth certificate; is
>>>> there a court order establishing paternity, etc.)
>>>>
>>>> If biodad has not established his paternal rights, he's
>>>> nothing more than an alleged biodad and, therefore, he has
>>>> no legal rights or obligations regarding your child.
>>>>
>>>> On 12/23/09, concernmommy wrote:
>>>>> Hi I hope someone can give me answers to my questions
>>>>> before going any further. Im a single mom of a 20 months
>>>>> little guy. Hes dad doesnt support him at all. I would say
>>>>> that he gets him some stuff every 6-8 months. Does he has
>>>>> the right to see him every time and whenever he feels like
>>>>> not letting me know in advance Is it recommended to wake
>>>>> up a baby from his nap so his dad can come pick him up and
>>>>> take him for a ride? He thinks that I am taking away his
>>>>> son but im just trying to be a good mom and protect my
>>>>> child in any ways without being selfish. Im not trying to
>>>>> take away his fathers rights i just want to know what his
>>>>> rights really are. Thanks