Re: Non supporting biodad rights

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Thanks for the advice. Regarding the clothes he wasnt eating rice. I
did asked his dad about his clothes and he responded that he had given
the baby a cup of ice while he was driving him back home..
On 12/29/09, sharwinston wrote:
> The laws in this country requires all parents to support their
> children -- court order or not. If he's not paying child support,
> then go to your local Child Support Enforcement Agency and they
> should help you get a court order & enforce it. However, you are
> reminded that he will likely get visitation unless health/safety
> issues are involved.
>
> I don't think anything about the soaked clothes & rice since I
> wasn't there & didn't see how it happened and with kids, there's no
> telling how it happened.
>
> On 12/29/09, concernmommy wrote:
>> He is obligated to to pay child support even if there's not a
>> court order? He's not helping me at all. He doesnt care too much
>> for my little one. He sais he was stopping by for xmas day and he
>> diidnt showed up,not even a phone call to ask about his son. To be
>> honest i dont trust him very much when he comes and pick up my
>> son.Last time he had him he brought him back with all his clothes
>> soaked,my little guy was in his car seat with a cup full of ice
>> while his dad was on his way to bring him back home. What do u
>> think about that?
>>
>> On 12/28/09, sharwinston wrote:
>>> Generally, when biodad signs the birth certificate, he has full
>>> rights to his child. In other words, both mom and dad have
>>> equal rights. No court order is required. Unless there is a
>>> health/safety issue, biodad has visitation rights and the
>>> obligation to pay child support.
>>>
>>> On 12/28/09, concernmommy wrote:
>>>> On 12/25/09, sharwinston wrote:
>>>> Thanks for ur respond...Biodad has only established paternity
>>>> by signing his birth certificate other than nothing else has
>>>> been done,there's no court order,we never got married.I just
>>>> want to know exactly what his rights are.
>>>>
>>>>> The answers depend on whether or not the biodad has
>>>>> established his paternal rights under the laws of your state
>>>>> (i.e. were you married to biodad when the child was
>>>>> conceived/born; did biodad sign the birth certificate; is
>>>>> there a court order establishing paternity, etc.)
>>>>>
>>>>> If biodad has not established his paternal rights, he's
>>>>> nothing more than an alleged biodad and, therefore, he has
>>>>> no legal rights or obligations regarding your child.
>>>>>
>>>>> On 12/23/09, concernmommy wrote:
>>>>>> Hi I hope someone can give me answers to my questions
>>>>>> before going any further. Im a single mom of a 20 months
>>>>>> little guy. Hes dad doesnt support him at all. I would say
>>>>>> that he gets him some stuff every 6-8 months. Does he has
>>>>>> the right to see him every time and whenever he feels like
>>>>>> not letting me know in advance Is it recommended to wake
>>>>>> up a baby from his nap so his dad can come pick him up and
>>>>>> take him for a ride? He thinks that I am taking away his
>>>>>> son but im just trying to be a good mom and protect my
>>>>>> child in any ways without being selfish. Im not trying to
>>>>>> take away his fathers rights i just want to know what his
>>>>>> rights really are. Thanks