Re: Non supporting biodad rights

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I understand your concern with the ice. A baby can choke and since he
admitted that he did give the baby the ice he is admitting that he was
putting the baby in danger of choking. Thank goodness nothing happened
otherwise you could sue and collect child support.
On 12/29/09, concernmommy wrote:
> I did see the cup full of ice in the baby's hands when i walked to car
> to get him....
> On 12/29/09, concernmommy wrote:
>> Thanks for the advice. Regarding the clothes he wasnt eating rice. I
>> did asked his dad about his clothes and he responded that he had given
>> the baby a cup of ice while he was driving him back home..
>> On 12/29/09, sharwinston wrote:
>>> The laws in this country requires all parents to support their
>>> children -- court order or not. If he's not paying child support,
>>> then go to your local Child Support Enforcement Agency and they
>>> should help you get a court order & enforce it. However, you are
>>> reminded that he will likely get visitation unless health/safety
>>> issues are involved.
>>>
>>> I don't think anything about the soaked clothes & rice since I
>>> wasn't there & didn't see how it happened and with kids, there's no
>>> telling how it happened.
>>>
>>> On 12/29/09, concernmommy wrote:
>>>> He is obligated to to pay child support even if there's not a
>>>> court order? He's not helping me at all. He doesnt care too much
>>>> for my little one. He sais he was stopping by for xmas day and he
>>>> diidnt showed up,not even a phone call to ask about his son. To be
>>>> honest i dont trust him very much when he comes and pick up my
>>>> son.Last time he had him he brought him back with all his clothes
>>>> soaked,my little guy was in his car seat with a cup full of ice
>>>> while his dad was on his way to bring him back home. What do u
>>>> think about that?
>>>>
>>>> On 12/28/09, sharwinston wrote:
>>>>> Generally, when biodad signs the birth certificate, he has full
>>>>> rights to his child. In other words, both mom and dad have
>>>>> equal rights. No court order is required. Unless there is a
>>>>> health/safety issue, biodad has visitation rights and the
>>>>> obligation to pay child support.
>>>>>
>>>>> On 12/28/09, concernmommy wrote:
>>>>>> On 12/25/09, sharwinston wrote:
>>>>>> Thanks for ur respond...Biodad has only established paternity
>>>>>> by signing his birth certificate other than nothing else has
>>>>>> been done,there's no court order,we never got married.I just
>>>>>> want to know exactly what his rights are.
>>>>>>
>>>>>>> The answers depend on whether or not the biodad has
>>>>>>> established his paternal rights under the laws of your state
>>>>>>> (i.e. were you married to biodad when the child was
>>>>>>> conceived/born; did biodad sign the birth certificate; is
>>>>>>> there a court order establishing paternity, etc.)
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> If biodad has not established his paternal rights, he's
>>>>>>> nothing more than an alleged biodad and, therefore, he has
>>>>>>> no legal rights or obligations regarding your child.
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>> On 12/23/09, concernmommy wrote:
>>>>>>>> Hi I hope someone can give me answers to my questions
>>>>>>>> before going any further. Im a single mom of a 20 months
>>>>>>>> little guy. Hes dad doesnt support him at all. I would say
>>>>>>>> that he gets him some stuff every 6-8 months. Does he has
>>>>>>>> the right to see him every time and whenever he feels like
>>>>>>>> not letting me know in advance Is it recommended to wake
>>>>>>>> up a baby from his nap so his dad can come pick him up and
>>>>>>>> take him for a ride? He thinks that I am taking away his
>>>>>>>> son but im just trying to be a good mom and protect my
>>>>>>>> child in any ways without being selfish. Im not trying to
>>>>>>>> take away his fathers rights i just want to know what his
>>>>>>>> rights really are. Thanks