Re: Non supporting biodad rights

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I did see the cup full of ice in the baby's hands when i walked to car
to get him....
On 12/29/09, concernmommy wrote:
> Thanks for the advice. Regarding the clothes he wasnt eating rice. I
> did asked his dad about his clothes and he responded that he had given
> the baby a cup of ice while he was driving him back home..
> On 12/29/09, sharwinston wrote:
>> The laws in this country requires all parents to support their
>> children -- court order or not. If he's not paying child support,
>> then go to your local Child Support Enforcement Agency and they
>> should help you get a court order & enforce it. However, you are
>> reminded that he will likely get visitation unless health/safety
>> issues are involved.
>>
>> I don't think anything about the soaked clothes & rice since I
>> wasn't there & didn't see how it happened and with kids, there's no
>> telling how it happened.
>>
>> On 12/29/09, concernmommy wrote:
>>> He is obligated to to pay child support even if there's not a
>>> court order? He's not helping me at all. He doesnt care too much
>>> for my little one. He sais he was stopping by for xmas day and he
>>> diidnt showed up,not even a phone call to ask about his son. To be
>>> honest i dont trust him very much when he comes and pick up my
>>> son.Last time he had him he brought him back with all his clothes
>>> soaked,my little guy was in his car seat with a cup full of ice
>>> while his dad was on his way to bring him back home. What do u
>>> think about that?
>>>
>>> On 12/28/09, sharwinston wrote:
>>>> Generally, when biodad signs the birth certificate, he has full
>>>> rights to his child. In other words, both mom and dad have
>>>> equal rights. No court order is required. Unless there is a
>>>> health/safety issue, biodad has visitation rights and the
>>>> obligation to pay child support.
>>>>
>>>> On 12/28/09, concernmommy wrote:
>>>>> On 12/25/09, sharwinston wrote:
>>>>> Thanks for ur respond...Biodad has only established paternity
>>>>> by signing his birth certificate other than nothing else has
>>>>> been done,there's no court order,we never got married.I just
>>>>> want to know exactly what his rights are.
>>>>>
>>>>>> The answers depend on whether or not the biodad has
>>>>>> established his paternal rights under the laws of your state
>>>>>> (i.e. were you married to biodad when the child was
>>>>>> conceived/born; did biodad sign the birth certificate; is
>>>>>> there a court order establishing paternity, etc.)
>>>>>>
>>>>>> If biodad has not established his paternal rights, he's
>>>>>> nothing more than an alleged biodad and, therefore, he has
>>>>>> no legal rights or obligations regarding your child.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> On 12/23/09, concernmommy wrote:
>>>>>>> Hi I hope someone can give me answers to my questions
>>>>>>> before going any further. Im a single mom of a 20 months
>>>>>>> little guy. Hes dad doesnt support him at all. I would say
>>>>>>> that he gets him some stuff every 6-8 months. Does he has
>>>>>>> the right to see him every time and whenever he feels like
>>>>>>> not letting me know in advance Is it recommended to wake
>>>>>>> up a baby from his nap so his dad can come pick him up and
>>>>>>> take him for a ride? He thinks that I am taking away his
>>>>>>> son but im just trying to be a good mom and protect my
>>>>>>> child in any ways without being selfish. Im not trying to
>>>>>>> take away his fathers rights i just want to know what his
>>>>>>> rights really are. Thanks